Chronos wrote:
"Damaged goods" is a term people use to try to inflict pain by attempting to instill a sense of inferiority in them, by attacking them on subjects the individual had no control over.
HopeGrows wrote:
OP, if you're talking about a general understanding of the term "damaged goods" that you see on the old www, I'd take that phrase to mean the following: a person who has endured some type of trauma (other posters in this thread have mentioned different types of abuse, family dysfunction, etc.), and/or is suffering from an untreated mental illness - and is not seeking help and/or treatment.
I agree with both these statements. When I try to think of someone who is "damaged goods," I can't think of anything except as an insult to someone. As for HopeGrows statement, I believe that to be true too. My girlfriend sometimes calls herself "damaged goods" because of being abused as a child, but I don't think she is because she is actively seeking help. She sees a councilor every week about her OCD, Depression, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and Bipolar II Disorder. She has even convinced me to go see a councilor about my possible Aspergers.