Aspie women and cuddling after sex

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Cuddling is great, but I do not have the requisite experience to comment on sex (I can only comment on my "solo play", as it were). That said, if given the opportunity for either cuddling or sex (only one or the other, not a combination of both), I'd honestly take the former. To me, sexual gratification is a purely physical thing, and as long as I still have use of my arms, it's a physical need I can satisfy pretty much at will. But it doesn't give me the emotional connection that I need the way cuddling does.

ToadOfSteel, I couldn't agree with you more. In a dating relationship, I'm looking for more than romance, but a companion, someone who I know I can turn to if I'm having a bad day. Cuddling, at least my limited experience with it, tends to have so much of an emotional connection.

I got three letters for ya. GFE

How can it be a real emotional connection if she's only in it for the money? I hear so much on here about women who screw around with guys with the express purpose of milking them for their money, and if those can't be deep meaningful connections, how can a defined business transaction be?

Emotional connections are nothing
More than short term chemical impulses that fade as quickly as they come. You can have fun and affectionate experiences with call
Girls as well. All relationships with the opposite sex boil down to
Your perceived market value. Some transactions are just more clear cut.

I really loved cuddleing after sex, when I was in a relationship we used to sleep cuddleing or holding hands. I really miss that most, I hate waking up in the night and he is not there, its the best to have someone's lovely back to snuggle into.

when Anne Summers makes a toy that can cuddle afterward she will be on to a winner!

I like cuddling before sex. Afterward, I just want to get cleaned up. And then, if I am not too tired, maybe I'll cuddle some more.