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10 Jul 2010, 7:29 pm

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Create this vibe with your non-verbals that says you're interested without even saying a word. The girl should notice that you're interested before you even say a word. A lot of it has to do with direct eye contact and acting sexy, which is all these subtle little things that begin to add up over time.


Yes, people who have an impairment in nonverbal communication can do that with ease.


practice makes perfect, i guess. i literally had to chat up girl after girl after girl to get this down. i have an ASD, too. doing this is 800x easier and sexier than being verbally upfront about your attraction.


Practice makes perfect if you know where to start with practice in the first place.


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10 Jul 2010, 8:38 pm

This is part of why I like escorts, it let's you move past your fear of talking to women. The only downside, if you want to call it one, is that you really don't seeing of a point to going out to bars and whatnot and chatting with girls who you are just not interested in beyond what's between their legs.



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11 Jul 2010, 3:04 am

hahah i agree with ricky here but i dont wanna spend my own hard earned cash on sex, theres other things id rather spend my money on



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11 Jul 2010, 5:25 am

When I was in high school I had a friend who was "Joe Cool"

He could go up to a girl, put his arm around her and say "Hi, baby. Where have you been all my life?"
She would be flattered and attracted.

Another friend was a bit awkward and not as nice looking. When he tried doing the same thing the girl would pull away and look horrified.

My awkward friend eventually met the right girl for him. They are happily married with several children.



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11 Jul 2010, 9:18 am

I don't scare them away I just make them never talk to me. I am pretty popular at my school (I don't how...) and all the time you get girls go up to you flirting and all, and i just have a blank confused face thinking "What do i? What do i say?... RUN!", okay so maybe I don't actually run. But i makes things weird seeing that all popular kids in my school all have lots of GFs..


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