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12 Jul 2010, 12:36 am

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I think that I'm a weird woman. At least by society's standards anyway. I feel like I need to find a guy who can match my weirdness in a way that can keep me interested but not completely freak out my family. Having a bible-thumping family makes that really difficult. Any guy with long hair = no no. >.>




So, then what kind of "weirdness" would a guy need to be compatible with your "weirdness"? :lol:

Most guys with long hair will cut it, because it's mostly just a "phase" in their life.



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12 Jul 2010, 5:33 am

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What do you mean by "willing to almost explore anything"?


I'm not sure what he means but, I'll take a crack at it. There's a lot of women that like Jane Austin and Artists like her. There's a few online communities devoted to her work. I'm sure if a male were prepaired to intelligently converse about her books and, maybe even dress up as Mr. Darcy on occasion. He would be the proverbial cock in the hen house.


I love Jane Austen! I would totally dress up as Darcy, the man is awesome. I'm not sure I could pull it off, though. I'm half-asian, so it'd look a bit weird, plus I'm not as tall as he is.

Maybe I could try dressing as some other kind of Victorian gentleman... or even Steampunk? I'm not sure I care enough to make my own costumes, though.


People mite assume you are gay 8O You mite could get along really well with the women till they find out your straight. I liked Ms.Darcy myself but when I mention it in conversations people tell me I'm gay

Meh, people assuming I'm gay doesn't really bother me. You know, unless they're nasty about it. If they really wanted to know my orientation, they would presumably ask.

That said, I think the only people who've wondered if I'm gay are people who've been long-time acquaintances, who've noticed that I haven't ever had a girlfriend or been on a date and whatnot, but don't know me well enough to have seen why.


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12 Jul 2010, 5:34 am

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I think that I'm a weird woman. At least by society's standards anyway. I feel like I need to find a guy who can match my weirdness in a way that can keep me interested but not completely freak out my family. Having a bible-thumping family makes that really difficult. Any guy with long hair = no no. >.>


Date a bald guy with a skull tattoo on his head.


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12 Jul 2010, 6:42 am

KaiG wrote:
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I think that I'm a weird woman. At least by society's standards anyway. I feel like I need to find a guy who can match my weirdness in a way that can keep me interested but not completely freak out my family. Having a bible-thumping family makes that really difficult. Any guy with long hair = no no. >.>


Date a bald guy with a skull tattoo on his head.


XD

That wouldn't cut it either. My mom's weird about skulls. She finds them satanic even though EVERYONE has a skull. It's a part of the human anatomy so I don't understand why it bothers her so much. D:



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12 Jul 2010, 6:44 am

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I think that I'm a weird woman. At least by society's standards anyway. I feel like I need to find a guy who can match my weirdness in a way that can keep me interested but not completely freak out my family. Having a bible-thumping family makes that really difficult. Any guy with long hair = no no. >.>




So, then what kind of "weirdness" would a guy need to be compatible with your "weirdness"? :lol:

Most guys with long hair will cut it, because it's mostly just a "phase" in their life.


Well, I enjoy anime and renaissance reenactment. So yeah, someone who doesn't mind that I dress up as a wench for fun. >.>

I guess, even though I like long hair on guys though. It gives me something to play with. :)



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12 Jul 2010, 8:24 am

Erisad wrote:
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Erisad wrote:
I think that I'm a weird woman. At least by society's standards anyway. I feel like I need to find a guy who can match my weirdness in a way that can keep me interested but not completely freak out my family. Having a bible-thumping family makes that really difficult. Any guy with long hair = no no. >.>




So, then what kind of "weirdness" would a guy need to be compatible with your "weirdness"? :lol:

Most guys with long hair will cut it, because it's mostly just a "phase" in their life.


Well, I enjoy anime and renaissance reenactment. So yeah, someone who doesn't mind that I dress up as a wench for fun. >.>

I guess, even though I like long hair on guys though. It gives me something to play with. :)


I have long hair and, would love to go to a RenFair dressed as a Scotish Highlander. I went to a local scotish fair a few years ago and it was cool to see all the clans lined up. I don't think that I would eat the haggis though.



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12 Jul 2010, 9:20 am

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Erisad wrote:
I think that I'm a weird woman. At least by society's standards anyway. I feel like I need to find a guy who can match my weirdness in a way that can keep me interested but not completely freak out my family. Having a bible-thumping family makes that really difficult. Any guy with long hair = no no. >.>




So, then what kind of "weirdness" would a guy need to be compatible with your "weirdness"? :lol:

Most guys with long hair will cut it, because it's mostly just a "phase" in their life.


Well, I enjoy anime and renaissance reenactment. So yeah, someone who doesn't mind that I dress up as a wench for fun. >.>

I guess, even though I like long hair on guys though. It gives me something to play with. :)


I have long hair and, would love to go to a RenFair dressed as a Scotish Highlander. I went to a local scotish fair a few years ago and it was cool to see all the clans lined up. I don't think that I would eat the haggis though.


I go to Ren faires and am active in my university's medieval renaissance club. I went to a scottish and irish music fest last February and loved it. ^_^



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12 Jul 2010, 10:28 am

Erisad wrote:
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Erisad wrote:
I think that I'm a weird woman. At least by society's standards anyway. I feel like I need to find a guy who can match my weirdness in a way that can keep me interested but not completely freak out my family. Having a bible-thumping family makes that really difficult. Any guy with long hair = no no. >.>




So, then what kind of "weirdness" would a guy need to be compatible with your "weirdness"? :lol:

Most guys with long hair will cut it, because it's mostly just a "phase" in their life.


Well, I enjoy anime and renaissance reenactment. So yeah, someone who doesn't mind that I dress up as a wench for fun. >.>

I guess, even though I like long hair on guys though. It gives me something to play with. :)



Dressing up as a wench for fun... at conventions or around the town? If someone was dressing up for conventions I wouldn't mind at all, even though I have never been to an anime convention. I just never got around to it.



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12 Jul 2010, 10:35 am

Robert_Darkwinters wrote:
Erisad wrote:
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Erisad wrote:
I think that I'm a weird woman. At least by society's standards anyway. I feel like I need to find a guy who can match my weirdness in a way that can keep me interested but not completely freak out my family. Having a bible-thumping family makes that really difficult. Any guy with long hair = no no. >.>




So, then what kind of "weirdness" would a guy need to be compatible with your "weirdness"? :lol:

Most guys with long hair will cut it, because it's mostly just a "phase" in their life.


Well, I enjoy anime and renaissance reenactment. So yeah, someone who doesn't mind that I dress up as a wench for fun. >.>

I guess, even though I like long hair on guys though. It gives me something to play with. :)



Dressing up as a wench for fun... at conventions or around the town? If someone was dressing up for conventions I wouldn't mind at all, even though I have never been to an anime convention. I just never got around to it.


At faires and other such events. Not like going out to the supermarket. Maybe if my friends were dressing up too I would.

I've never been to an anime convention but it's too expensive for me to go.



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12 Jul 2010, 5:14 pm

well, I see it as a lot of women out there act on a similar level.
I dated a woman [who eventually left me for some unexplained reason] Who was just so odd! She was just so great because of it!
People asked her out as a joke, and tended to not really be attracted to her...But I liked her.

A lot more than most women I meet.
Really quirky women who are a little reclusive, and have intresting imaginations and likes are always the most attractive to me! :oops:



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12 Jul 2010, 6:58 pm

and if I had the money, I would totally dress steampunk. But, Im not gay either. most of the gayness apprears from personality [much like hipsters] not from victorian clothes hahaha



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12 Jul 2010, 7:52 pm

bewarethebob wrote:
well, I see it as a lot of women out there act on a similar level.
I dated a woman [who eventually left me for some unexplained reason] Who was just so odd! She was just so great because of it!
People asked her out as a joke, and tended to not really be attracted to her...But I liked her.

A lot more than most women I meet.
Really quirky women who are a little reclusive, and have intresting imaginations and likes are always the most attractive to me! :oops:


Where have you had success finding people like that?



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12 Jul 2010, 9:16 pm

really, not many. but ive met some intresting women in the art college i go to.

mostly just being sincere and honest saying what i mean, gets me closer.
and sometimes i have sucess.

im no player tho. just a normal aspie



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13 Jul 2010, 12:41 am

people are generally amazing creatures.
they just dont know it yet