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13 Jul 2010, 8:45 am

Kat15 wrote:
mcdonalds. Classy


Expensive hobby > expensive woman :lol:

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You are lucky to be so pretty, that wouldn't work for me. :lol:


Thank you, I'll take that as a compliment and then argue my point that women really don't find me that pretty. At least not before they shave my mustache, beard, unibrow, nipples and straighten my hair. Yeah....I need a TOTAL makeover from a girl to be good enough :lol:

It mostly has to do with the sort of women I attract I figure. I always attract girls that meet all the following criteria, entirely on accident or as a result of mutual interests.
1. Cut
2. Constantly depressed
3 Have anger problems
4. Have self esteem problems
5. Wrongly accuse me of cheating or not liking them
I could go on if I felt like it probably, but yeah I never have attracted a woman that didn't have 10x as many problems as I do. I hate it, even when they tell me that I am perfect it just infuriates me that nobody can come close to being as mellow, understanding and what not as me.


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13 Jul 2010, 10:24 am

hale_bopp wrote:

OP: I don't talk to people I have a crush on. I'm too nervous to.

When I am with someone I love to touch and hug and kiss them, sometimes squeeze and bite them


Pretty much this. How I act before a relationship is established depends on the person in question, after a relationship has started I show affection by being physical.


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13 Jul 2010, 11:26 am

i draw them as well.....



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13 Jul 2010, 9:24 pm

Mark198423 wrote:
That depends on the situation. If it's a colleague or friend of a friend I try to talk to them, probably far too much. If I have no prior connection I have no idea what to do.


Me too.

If it's to my girlfriend who I know I'm allowed to show PDA, then I do the usual stuff like kiss, hug, backrubs...etc



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14 Jul 2010, 12:54 am

Kat15 wrote:
Pistonhead wrote:
1. Ask them to the movies
2. Take them to McDonalds
3. Take them to bed

I just act like myself, which means lots talk about cars and sex.



mcdonalds. Classy



maybe the clown is on to something here... ;)



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14 Jul 2010, 9:17 pm

I touch them a lot. If it's a stranger who doesn't know about my attraction towards them, I look them deeply in the eyes.



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14 Jul 2010, 9:49 pm

roadGames wrote:
I touch them a lot. If it's a stranger who doesn't know about my attraction towards them, I look them deeply in the eyes.


I tried this in the past but just appeared creepy I believe.



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14 Jul 2010, 11:50 pm

Mark198423 wrote:
roadGames wrote:
I touch them a lot. If it's a stranger who doesn't know about my attraction towards them, I look them deeply in the eyes.


I tried this in the past but just appeared creepy I believe.


You have to have a really sociable and flirty vibe going for several minutes before you start doing this, otherwise it comes out of nowhere. I've started in this phase before, though, and things have been just fine. With women, it's a numbers game always. Don't mark this off until you've experimented with it a lot (by a lot, I mean at least 20+ women). One will eventually dig your look and subsequently reciprocate your direct eye contact.



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17 Jul 2010, 7:38 pm

A deep look in the eyes can be a risky one. It can either come across as nice, or very creepy.

Touching, too. Only do that when they're really comfortable with you. After you've known them a while.



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17 Jul 2010, 10:08 pm

Bataar wrote:
At this point in my life, there isn't anyone I have a crush on. It's been a long time since I've met any women.



Same here, i rarely meet any girls i find loveable, just a bunch of generic girls thats not exactly on the "national mensa team" that hardly read what you write or listen to what you say, and thinks that everyone wants her just because she is beautiful, and that everyone will overlook her faults because of it :roll:

I think i have been in love about 5 times in my life and i havent had a crush since 2004.


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