Lene wrote:
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being just around as a friend with her would be nice.
Maybe you could drop her a line and see how she's doing.... Even if it's just a short-term solution for the loneliness until you make more friends in your new town, it might be helpful and give you closure.
There is a risk though that you may find yourself prolonging the heartbreak and unable to move on. Also, she may want to move on with her own life as well and you may just be rejected again. I personally would advise not contacting her again, but that's just me.
[edited; removed some stuff. sounded a bit patronising, sorry-]
^ actually i never saw any of that, its cool.
Im actually still in SF, where she lives as well. But yes, it probably isnt a good idea to contact her. that is why i asked her to cut all communication from me.
however, It has crossed my mind to shoot her a text or something. but it is probably best I dont.
Meeting new friends is going to be quite a feat, I hope I really can meet some. [either in class or elsewhere] Its hard to meet awesome people.
Im not entirely sure if I will contact her. I most likely wont however. she probably wants to move on anyway.
a friend of mine mentioned something about talking with her, but changed his mind and told me not to worry. Im not sure what that was about, but I figured that was worth mentioning.
I really should get out there, makes some friends, and meet and awesome akward gamer girl, perhaps she may even be an aspie!
18 Jul 2010, 10:26 pm
