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hale_bopp
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09 Aug 2010, 7:45 pm

I don't see the point in bringing it up, from my experience it puts guys off. Just be yourself, if he doesn't like it to begin with he never will. Don't bring a label into it.



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09 Aug 2010, 7:52 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
I don't see the point in bringing it up, from my experience it puts guys off. Just be yourself, if he doesn't like it to begin with he never will. Don't bring a label into it.


I can see why it would but I figure that if I end up in a stable relationship with the guy, it may be something he should know. >.>



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09 Aug 2010, 11:28 pm

It's something I would wait to tell someone until further along in a relationship. Preferably once they've been around you long enough to notice your quirks and form an opinion, so that when you tell the person it'll just give a title to something they already know about.


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10 Aug 2010, 7:23 am

KaiG wrote:
It's something I would wait to tell someone until further along in a relationship. Preferably once they've been around you long enough to notice your quirks and form an opinion, so that when you tell the person it'll just give a title to something they already know about.


Oh okay. That makes sense. ^_^