11 Aug 2010, 11:35 am
LK wrote:
No one has ever told me they were attracted to me because I behaved like an a**hole. However, there have been a few times when I was highly bothered by someone or a group of someones and purposefully behaved rudely or coldy only to have a someone suddenly take a romantic interest in me. In a few cases, I asked why on earth they were interested in me and was basically told, it was because I was so cold, hard to get, and uninterested in everyone around me that it was cool, sexy, and/or mysterious. O_o
Ive had that happen too, people I hate and Im rude to busting moves on me. I guess it proves the pua's right after all. However I couldnt sleep with someone I hated and I can not understand why someone would want to sleep with someone who didnt like them. I guess its because they think it makes one a higher social status than them so want to 'up-date', or it evokes a competitive spirit in them.
11 Aug 2010, 12:02 pm
Moog wrote:
focusfactor wrote:
Has a woman or man been attracted to you because they thought you were an a**hole or because they thought you were being a smart ass even though you werent trying to be and they really just misunderstood you?
No, but the idea amuses me. The disappointment when they realise you are really a nice person with terrible social skills and a dodgy sense of humour.
I've been, like, a jerk magnet for years now...trying to get out of that pattern, but not really sure how. Not in terms of dating a-holes, but more like broken people wanting to be friends with me (birds of a feather, maybe?) and then, surprise, surprise, turning out to be undependable fuckwits who just end up hurting me and bailing...
12 Aug 2010, 9:46 am
12 Aug 2010, 9:49 am
I'm a homo because I want to f**k girls. 
If I wanted to be accepted, I'd just pretend to be straight, because most of my friends are straight and sometimes they challenge me on whether I'm "really" queer, like I need an ID card to prove it.
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12 Aug 2010, 9:50 am
18 Aug 2010, 4:17 pm
Sholf wrote:
I'm a homo because I want to f**k girls. If I wanted to be accepted, I'd just pretend to be straight, because most of my friends are straight and sometimes they challenge me on whether I'm "really" queer, like I need an ID card to prove it.
If I wanted to be accepted, I'd just pretend to be straight, because most of my friends are straight and sometimes they challenge me on whether I'm "really" queer, like I need an ID card to prove it....so its like:
"=_= hmmm...we aren't so sure you're queer anymore. *tch* and we thought you were cool"
"noooo its true D: i even have my card to prove it see?"
