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v_savage
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02 Feb 2005, 3:17 am

chamoisee wrote:

At the risk of being a bit harsh....if you are going to jack someone around, confuse them, and so on, it would be best to do it to a neurotypical. Your poor aspie friend has to go through enough confusing double messages without this sort of thing. He may want to open up to you but be extremely afraid or unable to- can you blame him?

Well, in a way, we're both at fault. He shouldn't have tried for someone who was "just" getting out of a very long term relationship and I shouldn't have jumped the gun so quickly. Its just, he was soo good looking and sweet at the time I couldn't resist. He couldn't resist. There was something there between us and I believe there still is. He knows he can say goodbye at anytime and go. I'm currently waiting for his next e-mail. If he doesn't respond then I will understand and move on with myself.

v_savage
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11 Feb 2005, 11:36 pm

Omg! Omg! He told me he loved me! We're going to be spending Valentine's evening together!! I'm sooo happy!! I feel butterflies in my stomach!

aspergian_mutant~ Yes! Iam going to plant a big kiss on his lips for sure!

<Doing the happy dance!>

<Thanks to everyone for your advice and viewpoints!>

Mel
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12 Feb 2005, 7:26 am

v_savage wrote:

Omg! Omg! He told me he loved me! We're going to be spending Valentine's evening together!! I'm sooo happy!!

I feel butterflies in my stomach!

aspergian_mutant~ Yes! Iam going to plant a big kiss on his lips for sure!

<Doing the happy dance!>

<Thanks to everyone for your advice and viewpoints!>

I am so glad that you've managed to work though your difficulites

Hope you have a fun valentine's :heart:

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v_savage
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12 Feb 2005, 3:55 pm

Mel wrote:

v_savage wrote:

Omg! Omg! He told me he loved me! We're going to be spending Valentine's evening together!! I'm sooo happy!!

I feel butterflies in my stomach!

aspergian_mutant~ Yes! Iam going to plant a big kiss on his lips for sure!

<Doing the happy dance!>

<Thanks to everyone for your advice and viewpoints!>

I am so glad that you've managed to work though your difficulites

Hope you have a fun valentine's :heart:

Thank you & Happy V-day to you too!

aspergian_mutant
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12 Feb 2005, 5:15 pm

good luck, no worrys, be happy.

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04 Jun 2008, 10:08 pm

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