Soul mates and weird love

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I hope you don't mind me asking this but when you met your husband; Were you looking for that soul-mate connection at the time? Do you ever feel like you've settled for him because you can not get the kind of connection you really want? I had that connection with a girl 1ce years ago & I think it is impossible for me to ever have a strong connection like that with anyone else. A main factor for me in wanting a relationship is having a strong connection like that with someone. If I ever meet another woman who will love me; I'm sure I will not have that kind of connection & I believe my partner should be everything to me & I would not want her to ever feel like she's 2nd best or anything. If I'm going to feel like I've settled for someone; it's better for both of us if I'm alone. I would NOT want her to ever feel like she's settling. I would not want her to pass up an opertunity to have that connection with someone because she's with me instead. I'm not sure if that makes much sense

As some of you already know I believe in soulmates and also in God, so this will mean I will go into this subject as well.

Your soulmate is someone who you feel a bond with that no one else can, he/she may not always be what you expect them to be like when you first meet, but you always feel at peace when you are with them and you known that you can trust him/her 100%!

Soulmates are a gift from God and are needed by all in order for one to be happy.

As for knowing if someone is YOUR soulmate or not you won't really know until you go to Heaven. (If you go to Hell you don't have one as God would have deemed you unworhy of having one)

If you meet your soulmate on Earth, fall in love and marry (or whatever) then that's great! If not then God will have picked out someone for you who'll you'll meet when/if you go to Heaven and that is just as good if not better!

Marriage partners (of both sexes) are gifts from God, but you can only be married in God's eyes (and therefore in live a married life with him/her Heaven) if you are truely in love with one another, man made legal contracts don't count!

Although it has been said by some in the past that marriage does not happen in Heaven that only applies to man made marriages, not God made ones!

After all, all He has to do is to just deside that two people are right for one another (and I can assure you that they will be) and POW they are married!

The idea of a sexless and asexul Heaven makes me sick to the bone! Such ideas are surely the kind of stuff Satan would come up with in order to turn people away from God.

(May I add that you can't be a Christian just because you say so, as many so called Christians are indeed evil and will be in for a VERY rude awakening on the Day of Jugement! Likewise there are some who will be very plersently surprsed on that day, when God puts everything right!)

That is why I beileve that me and my girlfriend are already married right now! We haven't had the Wedding yet (even white Weddings are based on pagen ones.) but we will still have one in order to make it, a proper marriage (in the eyes of man made law) clear to the world that we are a married cuple and to have a big party were we can be fussed over!

I'm quite sure that my girlfriend is my soulmate but as I have felt the same about other girls in the past I can't say that for sure, until God tell us.

One cannot prove that God (and the like) exsits but one cannot prove otherwise so, in order to keep myself sane I'm asumming that God is the real deal.

If you what to know more then check out an old thread I started a while back called (if my memery sures me correctly) 'Yes you can have a partner in Heaven and have sex there!! !!'

At the end of the day if you go to Heaven you'll have all of your desires (and wims) met!

After all if God can make and run the universe then surely He can 'poof up' (for want of a better term) WHATEVER YOU WANT OR NEED!! !! !

This is a trait that God is well known for (just ask any Sunday School Teacher) and He must do this in order for Heaven to be well....Heaven.

Yes I know that we won't go up to Heaven strat away as we have to rise again and live on the New Earth first, but I will add that when one lives there your needs and wants will most likely be met all the same.

Lastly if you want to know more info about this (or anything else I have discussed) then feel free to ask me, and I'll try and answer your qustions ASAP.

Goodbye Till Next Time

You do know that most people have that problem?
The only reason half the people around are in relationships is because they find someone good enough and settle.
Theres mr good enough, and mr right.

I'm extremely picky but any guys I do fall for I seem to simply be Miss good enough.

I knew I wasn't the only one, but I didn't know it was that prevalent.

I thought I had a soul mate (Still hope I do)

She texted me late one night to ask me a totally uncharacteristic question "do you believe in 'the one'?"

and I wanted to say "Yeah. im texting her right now" or something corny like that but I didn't. I said "I dont know. I hope so cause that would be less of a headache" and she said "I knew youd say that"

and. yeah. Im left totally confused and feeling like either she likes me and I just missed another oppurtunity or shes a psychopath and derives pleasure from messing with me. I think thats the definition of black and white thinking but those are the only logical conclusions i can draw from our interactions

i don't believe that i have a soulmate in this particular incarnation. but there have been people that i was instinctively drawn to, and wished with all my heart that i could belong to them and they could belong to me. there were people with such good hearts and refinement that i would have followed them into hell and back- these were people that i could say that i loved, but this was generally unrequited. i don't expect this to make sense to anybody.

That's what I would love to be able to experience in life, and everyone thinks im creepy and/or clingy for feeling that way. What gives?

In any case, whatever the outcome of the moral dilemma, one should hold on to a man who is ironing his own shirts. They are, like, rare birds.

i don't believe in ironing but i would never expect another human to do it for me.

Intellectually I don't really believe in soul mates, and yet I still feel like my husband is mine. It's kind of how I feel about astrology.

I definitely believe in soul mates. However, I'm not so sure that the emotional experience of falling in love with someone indicates they're your soul mate. Soul mates are God's way of accounting for things behind the scenes, and whom we fall in love with, and whom we marry, are just our best guess.

I am very diligently looking for work in my field, and plan to get out on my own the minute I get a good job offer.

But in the meantime, I feel that potential partners won't bother to differentiate between what I am doing right now, and some sort of slacker who doesn't even try.

that seriously sucks, and is completely unfair to you. it must be hard to explain your situation for the fear of sounding like you are making excuses or something.

You totally should have done that.

I get cheated out of potentially good relationships because the other person assumes I am a certain way, based on her previous relationships, when their assumptions are false.

One person assumed I had a "weak personality" and that I couldn't communicate directly with her because I asked for advice online.