Feminine Males

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well, although it isn't a total requirement for me, i am attracted to men who are slightly feminine and women who are slightly masculine. the closer a person is to the elusive androgyny, the more i find them attractive. i especially appreciate transgendered persons (M2F or F2M), as their true nature and their bodies seem to exist in conflict. to me there is something achingly beautiful about that.

aww, thanks
i need all the warm fuzzies i can get.
from your posted pics, i would have to say you are fine in appearance, so i want you to stand in front of your mirror and say "I LIKE ME!" [you like you].
i am old enough to have watched TOS on its original NBC run. i remember camping out in the big box that our new setchell-carson color console tv set came in, and i remember how fluorescent the star trek colors looked on those old color sets. oh well, i was just having a flashback, i suppose.

but the pics you posted several months back show a nice-looking lady. and i am henry corwin [the fellow in the avatar]- if you watch the old twilight zone episode "night of the meek," he is a drunken disappated department store santa whose good days are long behind him, but he finds redemption at the end.

I'm generally attracted to more masculine males, but when it comes to guys butts, I do like feminine asses lol. One of my best friends is a guy, and most people think he's effeminate, but really he just has effeminate mannerisms and speech. EVERYBODY thinks he's gay except for the people who know him best (me and a few other people). He did like me for a while but I turned him down. I kind of regret doing that, but we still have a super strong friendship so it's okay, plus I just wasn't very attracted to him.

Drives me up a wall. Actually drives a lot of my friends up walls too.

We see these "kids" (e.g. Goth) dress up, put on make up have long hair, get piercings, go to burning man, etc. And we wonder "what the hell?" Rationally I understand its them and/or their way of trying to determine where their place in the world is...

But what we see is often a lack of male role models and a little bit of too much freedom (e.g. bad parenting).

However, there have been very few (I get into SF and Santa Cruz fairly often) people who have had the proper role models, good parents, etc. and like the way they are. For these folks, I have no problem with as I do recognize it's a conscious choice and it makes them happy.

But for the other 9/10... Ugh.

long hair is great
short hair turns me off, almost without exception.

Thanks. I probably wouldn't say I'm ugly so much as I am extremely plain add that and then my crappy social skills which makes it much more frustrating.

And yes I remember that show in the twilight series. My dad's got a collection of them, that particular one I did love.

there is nothing wrong with plain, as i am plain also. there is a big difference between plain and the other word. and btw, i failed to see anything in your pic that qualified as "plain," for whatever that is worth coming from plain ol' me. if only i looked more like keanu reeves and had some of his gray matter, i'd have the world by the cajones by now.



ah, a man of culture

You forgot to post your source.