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My ideal partner would be someone who is open minded, intelligent(don't have to be a physicist or anything), willing to try new things, cares for others, honest, and loyal.

My ideal partner would be someone I could admire and look up to, connect with on a deeper level, and who loves me back.

Someone who doesnt tease, rip on, or laugh at me for all of my ridiculous flaws...

...and isnt obsessed with sitting around playing video/computer games all the time.

That is all.

Someone with integrity, honesty, intelligence, someone who can look past my flaws for the person I am, caring, has a personality who would make anyone's day and with a aura of confidence.

And someone who can keep up with me outside.

Although as it happens I'm no longer single and that I really would not change my gf for anyone else, I'll give you all what I though would be my ideal partner...

And yes, my girlfriend is doing a fine job (as they say) at being my perfect woman!

For a start she had to look nice, she'd had to be soft, kindhearted and craving of my company, some may call this needy, but for me as I like the company of those I care about it's better than having some kind of reclose.

Also she'd needed to be able to agree with me as much as possible and not argue with me!

This does not mean that I'd want her as a slave, but rather if some one is laid back and let's me me the one to 'be in control' (abet in a nice way) when need be then it avoids a lot of heart break for everyone consurend as I happen to be the kind of guy, who will not back down when he is challagened, if I did get into a really heated argument, then it would only end with me giving her (verbel) abuse (I'm good at that kind of thing you see), which would upset her, and afterwards I'd feel bad for upsetting her, and maybe even scareing her (I'm a lot like Namor, when he's having one of his rages when I get mad, happly I'm yet to try to level New York City!)

However I can discuss things with people and admit that I'm wrong in those kind of cercomstances.

Also she'd needs to be happy with traditional gender roles, now I know that those aren't for everyone, but I'm fine with them so I needed a girl that was ok with them too.

After all I don't want to have to worry about her getting stressed out?

(Needless to say however I'm also fine with doing housework myself)

Also she'd need to know how to make me feel happy and to protect me from being upset (i.e. cheer me up when I am down)

Sex is quite important too as a matter of fact!

Being Loyal is a good thing too!

Knowing how to be a lady (but not stuck up) is goes far for me!

A cute childlikeness is always nice!

Shyness for me, is MEGA hot so I was (very) open to Aspie girls!

And lastly, she'd have to be happy! In fact the more like pollyanna she was the better!

And so bearing those things in mind I started looking for a 'mate' (as in the sexy kind)

As it happened I did find a girl who was like that she was not quite how I thought she'd be like, (in my minds eye she looked like a 1960's bond girl,) but she still had all the things I was looking for anyway, but as there were a few things I was not expecting in her (that I still liked) then that only made things better!! !! !

Anyway that is the way things turned out for me and I feel as though that as it was meant to happen that is why it did.

Goodbye Till Next Time

Someone who loves me a lot and who I feel the same about. If that's happened, then whatever her qualities, she must be perfect.

My ideal partner would not NEED me, but WANT me.

I pretty much agree with everything that boosterjones said. I guess you could say those are high demands, strangely enough one of the girls I was close to(my one-itis you could say) is exactly like that, if only she would feel the same about me.