Love and Dating Positivity Thread

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Perhaps you should do the same Sunshower. From what I've read here many of you had won the ovarian lottery and as a result are enjoying "success" in adult hood and many of you still manage to find the time to complain (sorry) I can only assume it's depressive related yes?

Well I guess it's nice that one of us has faith in me. Thank you for your support...

ToadOfSteal~ I see a lot of characteristics of myself in you & you remind me of a younger version of me in some good ways. You are a kind gentle caring soul

The_Face_of_Boo~ You seem have learned a lot from you own experiences & other things you've seen & your opinions/views about em make a lot of sense. You are NOT afraid to admit things that lots of others would be afraid of

Hyperlexian I find you trying to help other users in almost every thread at L&D and I personally think you are doing a great job.

Erisad Your posts have improved a lot lately(probably due the flame wars you got into) and I see you are making an effort at finding out what your problems are and trying to solve them, good luvk on that.

Last edited by spongy on 13 Oct 2010, 12:40 am, edited 1 time in total.

spongy, you really made me feel great! thanks for that!


and my too-short list (i'd like to include a lot more):

spongy, right back at you! you are unfailingly positive and supportive on WP

menintights, you say some hard things that i feel like we need to start listening to

Sallamandrina, you take the time to make thoughtful and thought-provoking answers

Moog, i enjoy your humour and i like that you are always kind

Janissy, i like that your opinions are outspoken but your delivery does not hurt or attack other people


there are about 50 other people, but i don't want to take over the thread with all my idols.

okay, i promise not to come back 8,000 times with the names of all the people who positively contribute to L&D, but i really really just had to add:

Asp-Z - i cannot believe you are only 16 years old. you have an understanding and maturity in this area that is a huge contribution to the forum

HopeGrows - you never give up on trying to express the perspective that you believe in

ok, i'll try to stop now.

Thanks, that's a few more I can add:

I'd compliment Hyperlexian and Hopegrows for somewhat similar reasons - getting into threads and sharing their views and thoughts compassionately as well as showing that they will not give in to negativity based on occasional negative replies.

Janissy - Often times you say exactly what I'm thinking but you end up saying it better and more concisely than I could have.

Thank you very much

Im glad you liked it.

Your posts also lightened my day a bit but I doubt Im half as supportive as you, lately Ive been expending too much time at off-the wall doing pointless posts but Im trying to change that.

I concur, Asp-Z - your insight amazes me.

thanks so much! i try hard to stay calm, though i did snap once.

techstepgenr8tion, can i just say that you are a positive influence with intelligent contributions and you are an incredibly talented musician? (sorry had to throw it in in case nobody noticed)

Thanks. *waves flame wars veteran badge*

Spongy, you are a very smart and helpful fellow. ^_^

Hyperlexian - For being so helpful and nice regardless of what's thrown your way.
Pistonhead - You're a good guy, whether you want to admit it or not.

I'm blanking right now so I'll add more when I think of them.

Thank you

A sugar-coated orgy, how amusing.

Most of you guys aren't half bad . I really don't know what anyone looks like, or what any of your personal characteristics are- age, sexual preference, even gender for the most part- so I am not judging people based on something else. I was surprised to see so many people in or have had successful experiences. All you hear is what a nightmare it is supposed to be with someone on the spectrum, most of you seem more stable than a lot of the nt's I've met.

^