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Stellar
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25 Oct 2010, 2:32 am

So uh, somewhere I read someone saying that if the person isn't married then it's fair game to pursue them. It's kind of messed up but we only have one life to live. Good luck with whatever happens.



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25 Oct 2010, 3:10 am

Stellar wrote:
So uh, somewhere I read someone saying that if the person isn't married then it's fair game to pursue them. It's kind of messed up but we only have one life to live. Good luck with whatever happens.


Sounds like an excuse for their own behavior.



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25 Oct 2010, 3:58 am

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ehh, its the same as if he had said she was blond with blue eyes. Black is just a quick way to describe appearance. /shrug


I was simply curious, that's all. I wasn't implying anything more than that.

But the issue of race is far more than just a "way to describe appearance."



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25 Oct 2010, 4:17 am

ducky9924 wrote:
Stellar wrote:
So uh, somewhere I read someone saying that if the person isn't married then it's fair game to pursue them. It's kind of messed up but we only have one life to live. Good luck with whatever happens.


Sounds like an excuse for their own behavior.

Don't think so. As long as the person isn't deceptive when trying to gain the interest of the other person, it seems okay. Dating can be pretty aggresive. Sucks but that is the reality of it.



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25 Oct 2010, 7:36 am

i guess it is not good that she is not available to you.

but there must be many ladies that are pretty black that work in ice cream parlors, so i suppose that it would be a good idea to find the locations of other ice cream stalls in your vicinity that have women that are quite black that work in them, and i would suspect that you may find success in one of them.

i am not sure why you like women that are quite black who serve ice cream, but the world is a big place, and i am almost sure that you will find one that is single if you look a bit further afield.

good luck.