Why do average looking chicks expect good looking guys?

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I don't care about generic hot personally and don't care if they match me or not. I'm one of the few women it seems who doesn't drool over hot looking guys, even for gossip purposes. I find them unpleasing to look at and are about as interesting to me as a lamp post. The guys I fall for aren't generic hot at all. I think they are gorgeous, but a lot of other people don't.

this thread is honestly making me a little sad. i don't think it matters if you are "average" or "hot" because as long as you look good enough for the other person, to them you are attractive. someday you will find a girl who thinks you're the hottest man she's ever seen, believe me. females tend to judge a man as more attractive if he's well-dressed, "cool" and smart. in fact, studies have shown that a man's socioeconimic status is what women are drawn to, not his bare-bones physical blueprint.
If anything, women are being held to higher standards by men. And beauty alone is the most important thing to a lot of men, as the sexes biologically programmed to want certain qualities.

I am an older woman that has continually been astonished at older men, bald heads (no, not shaved, bald) with little wisps of looooong hair looped across the freckled baldness, beer bellies proceeding them into a room, sitting on a chair with both hammy thighs splayed out to hold up their bad breathed bulk speculating on the attractiveness of young women that pass by their gaze.

the idea that they have no concept of their own lack of hotness does not deter them from surveying the faults and points of interest in the sexual objectives that pass by. Their attitude of entitlement of pronouncing their judgements makes the mind dizzy when pondering what planet they are on that their opinion would even matter. It's that entitlement they feel, that was instilled into them as children, that they were male and as such, the world had to pass their inspection, or be discarded that makes ME want to pass judgement on them.

Otherwise I would not recognize them at all. Which is maybe why they do it?

Merle

oh, and that #$%@ I have heard all my life "Girls can get laid anytime, yadda yadda yadda"
Do you know the reason men are so interested in sex? Because their climax is almost guaranteed. Just get your jollies and then roll over and ask some inane question like "was it good for you?" and think that passes for good manners is hardly thrilling for the partner.

Do you know why women are so picky (other than STDs, Pregnancy, Reputation, etc.?) because having an orgasm or some other satisfying result of being 'laid anytime' is more of an accident than a given. Having our libido revved up for some guy to finish early and be unwilling or clueless to the necessities of being a good and sufficient lover is hardly our idea of a good time. I am not naive enough to think that a man is responsible for my orgasm, but being able to 'get laid at any time' gets diminishing returns, guys. It's not how you try to frame it, at all.

ApsieGuy, have you ever posted a picture of yourself?

Considering the number of times you've bragged about or at least alluded to how hot your body is, I'd really like to see if it's the objective truth or if it's all in your head.

In response to the opening post;

I don't see what the big problem is. Would you really want to go out with someone who requires that their partner be "hot"? And would you really want someone to go out with you just because they think you're "hot" (which I imagine is something a lot of "hot" men and women get stuck with)? Those exceptions you mention, no matter how common or uncommon they are (though I'd hope they aren't as rare as you imply), are the ladies that it's worth being interested in.

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