I Don't Get It?!

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thanks for the update. i realized just now that what i wrote sounded harsh. i wasn't trying to say that you ACTUALLY rejected her, just that she may have felt that way a little bit.so i should say sorry if i was too blunt or conclusive there.

i think it is never too late to ask something like: "i felt like i upset you with something i said at our date. did i offend you somehow?" (it may clear the air. she might have misunderstood something you said.)

Lots of good theories here. Might even be a combination. You might have pushed away a little, but then she may not have been into you enough to really care. As for the reason she texted you now, she might have just felt sad for something unrelated and needed validation. Whatever the reason, don't worry about it. You asked her out, and that's all you can do.

I've said it before, but the only person you should try to understand is yourself. That's not even easy.