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11 Dec 2010, 6:50 pm

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Finesse is what always gets me going

x :thumright:


:? errr... no.

More like this v

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The property of having grace, elegance, skill, or balance.


http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/finesse

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In sports, the term is used to denote a style of play characterized by reliance upon a player's speed and agility rather than physical strength


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Finesse_%2 ... guation%29

Next to symmetry I am in the same boat as techstepgenr8tion (Intelligence and self-sufficiency in the opposite gender) and finally; a strong character in the opposite gender.

This is about as dirty as i'll get in this thread :wink:


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i know, i was being silly. i couldn't resist.


I know :wink:
I just like talking about myself :P


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11 Dec 2010, 7:02 pm

The following qualities are very sexy and alluring in a man:

Not necessarily in this order:

High intelligence bordering on brilliance
Extraordinary technical/mechanical aptitude
Kindness and compassion for people while still having a passion for life
A nice smile with white teeth (Chesire Cat grin qualifies)
Tenacity
Professionalism
Excellence of character ("Discretion is the better part of valor.")
European accent (multilingual OOOOOOOOOOOO LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!! !)
Eclecticism and an appreciation for the arts in all forms
Great butt that looks hot in a pair of black button-fly 501s (Does it get any better than this?)
A lover who approaches making love with the attitude that being a great lover means you care as much as (if not more so) about your partner's pleasure as you do your own.

Does such a man exist????



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11 Dec 2010, 7:08 pm

HopefulRomantic wrote:
The following qualities are very sexy and alluring in a man:

Not necessarily in this order:

High intelligence bordering on brilliance
Extraordinary technical/mechanical aptitude
Kindness and compassion for people while still having a passion for life
A nice smile with white teeth (Chesire Cat grin qualifies)
Tenacity
Professionalism
Excellence of character ("Discretion is the better part of valor.")
European accent (multilingual OOOOOOOOOOOO LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!! !)
Eclecticism and an appreciation for the arts in all forms
Great butt that looks hot in a pair of black button-fly 501s (Does it get any better than this?)
A lover who approaches making love with the attitude that being a great lover means you care as much as (if not more so) about your partner's pleasure as you do your own.

Does such a man exist????


I just checked, and yes, I still exist. I'm glad you left humility out though. Or does that come under the general heading of excellence of character? :wink:


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11 Dec 2010, 7:17 pm

Sluts.


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11 Dec 2010, 7:48 pm

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Sluts.



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Praytell Mr. Avengilante, please tell us what charm school you attended for I must go! If only all of us, had such a scintillating personality brimming with charm and grace as you do!! !



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11 Dec 2010, 8:48 pm

What turns me on? For one, I like brunettes more than blonds. My mind kind of separates mental/emotional and physical aspects, so a girl's personality can't really be hot.

I do, however, has a major fetish for restriction. At the same time, it freaks me out, so it's not a very efficient system.


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12 Dec 2010, 12:08 am

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Fundamentalism.

Hijabs and jilabs do make for some mysterious women.



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12 Dec 2010, 5:17 am

- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ihF_aXi-Huk
-Running my hands on things.
-Alcohol (sometimes).

From people:
-Intelligent conversation and being well-spoken.
-Hands which could crush my own.
-Penetrating eyes (from the right person).
-The guiding-with-a-hand-lightly-on-the-small-of-the-back thing.
Other, more explicit and/or personal things.


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12 Dec 2010, 5:20 am

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A lover who approaches making love with the attitude that being a great lover means you care as much as (if not more so) about your partner's pleasure as you do your own.


If each party cares more about the other's pleasure, only good things can happen.


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12 Dec 2010, 5:48 am

The topic is too vague. What arouses me in a person? In porn? Does it need to be safe for work?

I don't feel comfortable in saying because of the latter possibility.



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12 Dec 2010, 5:57 am

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Does it need to be safe for work?


Since this is not the adult forum, I suspect so.


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12 Dec 2010, 9:27 am

Revolvers or bladed weaponry :oops:
Certain stringed instruments make noises I "really" like... like a violin or fiddle
Dilaudid (Not sure of the spelling, but it was injected into me quite a bit after a surgery), although it did induce vomiting :(
A very warm soft blanket (Like a cozy one straight from the dryer)

Oh, about what interests me in girls...
I'm not overly aroused at all (Seem asexual), although I do very much enjoy their company. I guess if I'm very comfortable with a girl and am in love I can be aroused (Kind of... more I'm facinated) by pretty much anything "clean" about her.

Ooh... maybe if all of these things were combined I could manage to reproduce :chin: j/k... that would be weird :?



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12 Dec 2010, 9:50 am

HopefulRomantic wrote:
The following qualities are very sexy and alluring in a man:

Not necessarily in this order:

High intelligence bordering on brilliance
Extraordinary technical/mechanical aptitude
Kindness and compassion for people while still having a passion for life
A nice smile with white teeth (Chesire Cat grin qualifies)
Tenacity
Professionalism
Excellence of character ("Discretion is the better part of valor.")
European accent (multilingual OOOOOOOOOOOO LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!! !)
Eclecticism and an appreciation for the arts in all forms
Great butt that looks hot in a pair of black button-fly 501s (Does it get any better than this?)
A lover who approaches making love with the attitude that being a great lover means you care as much as (if not more so) about your partner's pleasure as you do your own.

Does such a man exist????


Well, yes I used to.

But let me ask you, what do you have to offer in return?
What makes you worthy of such a Prince Charming?

Are you young? Virginal? Beautiful? Chaste?

Can you paint and play musical instruments? Are you charming and good at conversation?
Do you know how to darn your husband's socks or stitch and embroider his shirts?
Can you bind his woulds when he comes back from battle?
Can you bear his children and raise them properly?

If not then what makes you think you deserve him?



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12 Dec 2010, 10:25 am

Wombat wrote:
HopefulRomantic wrote:
The following qualities are very sexy and alluring in a man:

Not necessarily in this order:

High intelligence bordering on brilliance
Extraordinary technical/mechanical aptitude
Kindness and compassion for people while still having a passion for life
A nice smile with white teeth (Chesire Cat grin qualifies)
Tenacity
Professionalism
Excellence of character ("Discretion is the better part of valor.")
European accent (multilingual OOOOOOOOOOOO LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!! !)
Eclecticism and an appreciation for the arts in all forms
Great butt that looks hot in a pair of black button-fly 501s (Does it get any better than this?)
A lover who approaches making love with the attitude that being a great lover means you care as much as (if not more so) about your partner's pleasure as you do your own.

Does such a man exist????


Well, yes I used to.

But let me ask you, what do you have to offer in return?
What makes you worthy of such a Prince Charming?

Are you young? Virginal? Beautiful? Chaste?

Can you paint and play musical instruments? Are you charming and good at conversation?
Do you know how to darn your husband's socks or stitch and embroider his shirts?
Can you bind his woulds when he comes back from battle?
Can you bear his children and raise them properly?

If not then what makes you think you deserve him?


I still pine for the 13th century too, sometimes.


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12 Dec 2010, 11:49 am

Wombat wrote:
HopefulRomantic wrote:
The following qualities are very sexy and alluring in a man:

Not necessarily in this order:

High intelligence bordering on brilliance
Extraordinary technical/mechanical aptitude
Kindness and compassion for people while still having a passion for life
A nice smile with white teeth (Chesire Cat grin qualifies)
Tenacity
Professionalism
Excellence of character ("Discretion is the better part of valor.")
European accent (multilingual OOOOOOOOOOOO LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!! !)
Eclecticism and an appreciation for the arts in all forms
Great butt that looks hot in a pair of black button-fly 501s (Does it get any better than this?)
A lover who approaches making love with the attitude that being a great lover means you care as much as (if not more so) about your partner's pleasure as you do your own.

Does such a man exist????


Well, yes I used to.

But let me ask you, what do you have to offer in return?
What makes you worthy of such a Prince Charming?

Are you young? Virginal? Beautiful? Chaste?

Can you paint and play musical instruments? Are you charming and good at conversation?
Do you know how to darn your husband's socks or stitch and embroider his shirts?
Can you bind his woulds when he comes back from battle?
Can you bear his children and raise them properly?

If not then what makes you think you deserve him?

where did you read anything in her post that in any way indicated that she wanted a walking anachronism for a boyfriend?


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12 Dec 2010, 3:49 pm

hyperlexian wrote:
Wombat wrote:
HopefulRomantic wrote:
The following qualities are very sexy and alluring in a man:

Not necessarily in this order:

High intelligence bordering on brilliance
Extraordinary technical/mechanical aptitude
Kindness and compassion for people while still having a passion for life
A nice smile with white teeth (Chesire Cat grin qualifies)
Tenacity
Professionalism
Excellence of character ("Discretion is the better part of valor.")
European accent (multilingual OOOOOOOOOOOO LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA LAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!! !)
Eclecticism and an appreciation for the arts in all forms
Great butt that looks hot in a pair of black button-fly 501s (Does it get any better than this?)
A lover who approaches making love with the attitude that being a great lover means you care as much as (if not more so) about your partner's pleasure as you do your own.

Does such a man exist????


Well, yes I used to.

But let me ask you, what do you have to offer in return?
What makes you worthy of such a Prince Charming?

Are you young? Virginal? Beautiful? Chaste?

Can you paint and play musical instruments? Are you charming and good at conversation?
Do you know how to darn your husband's socks or stitch and embroider his shirts?
Can you bind his woulds when he comes back from battle?
Can you bear his children and raise them properly?

If not then what makes you think you deserve him?

where did you read anything in her post that in any way indicated that she wanted a walking anachronism for a boyfriend?


I don't see what Wombat's post has to do with anarchism.


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