Why is that most people marry within their own race?
What a load of crap. Skin colors are a poor indicator of how much in common you have with someone and a middle-class white man probably has more in common with a middle-class black woman than with a working-class white woman. People just have all sorts of assumptions about someone whose skin color doesn't match their own, and in the U.S. the assumptions just tend to be favorable for white people (and Asians) but not so much for black people (and Hispanics, and any other group with darker skin color).
Cultural differences aren't exclusive to race--two people can be both white and be as different as night and day. People who imply that someone who isn't white is automatically more different from a white person just need to get out more.
I would say the factors are:
--Who you grew up around. For instance, Asians who grew up in white neighborhoods tend to have their tastes shaped by that experience to be attracted to white people -- it's a controversial issue here in the States to some extent.
--Cultural Propaganda -- somewhat related to the above, but more about who is portrayed in the media (TV, movies) and even in toys (like blonde barbies for black little girls) that shape one's perception of what is valued by a culture, even world culture. Considering that the countries with the widest-viewed (in terms of viewership outside of the country, because Bollywood is huge, but most of their viewership is in India, while Hollywood is slightly smaller now, but their products are viewed in more diverse countries and cultures) media tend to be countries that are also mostly Caucasian, for instance, those tastes end up percolating to other cultures who view those movies as well.
--Family and Social Pressure -- if you grow up in a house where your Mom and Dad say "don't you dare ever bring home someone who is X color," odds are that will skew your thinking, though some do rebel, and that backfires on Mom and Dad (and society).
--Religion -- while religion can span ethnic groups, certain groups are more likely to be one race than another, or certain races are more likely to be a majority one religion vs. another. Case in point, most Caucasians are some kind of Christian. Most (but not all) folks in the middle East are Muslim, etc. If you're Jewish and try to bring home a guy from Pakistan, odds are your family might be a bit concerned, since there are almost no Pakistani Jews.
--Fetishes -- somewhat related to the points above -- maybe you just want something different, or always wanted to date X race of person, etc. Maybe you just find a particular race beautiful.
--Who is Interested -- It's not secret that race plays into power politics and other aspects of our lives, like it or not -- we really don't live in a color-blind society, as much as we give that concept lip service. You might have higher relative value with one race vs. another, even your own. So if the people who are interested in me from my own race don't meet my expectations, but I find that people from another race tend to consistently be attracted to me and are to a level of quality I desire, maybe I go where the demand is, and where my needs are being met.
I would add to this that the other childern that you play with as a child and the images you see in the media growing up have an impact as well.
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People may want to marry within their own race but lots of people in my area date & have kids with people outside their race
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I was exactly opposite, my first girlfriend was black and my wife is black, while I dated women of all races in between. I don't attribute this to any particular factor, it's just how things worked out with who I happened to meet and be compatible with.
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If you want a marriage to last then the best thing to do is to marry someone as much like yourself as possible.
That is:
Same race.
Same religion.
Same socio-economic background.
Same intelligence and level of education.
Same political views.
Why?
Because then you have a shared background and the same hopes for the future.
I have not found that racist stereotype to be true of black women in general here in the US, and I've interacted with many. Maybe you're just treating them like s**t.
I'm white, yet I prefer black women, although I've never had the opportunity to actually date one.
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I think this is why some of the women here date guys who aren't white so they can tick their parents off. It's about rebellion.
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Mixed race children are one of the highest goals of communists in their never-ending efforts to create as much social disorder as possible.
My goal in this post is to show that the true racists are the communists trying to make you think race mixing is in any way shape or form acceptable. I'm also going to make it easy for people to become aware of how to spot these racist communists and to see how their tactics are easily predictable.
I don't do political correctness because it's a load of communist bull. If a child is born without arms and legs they're not equal because they're not equally capable which is different from being given an equal chance (which requires an unequal amount of effort to give such a person an equal chance). The same is true about evolution and environments, the less demanding your native environment the less refined your racial background will be. The commies can scream racist all they want though statistics are an easy way to destroy the whole equality issue: there are virtually no white male on black female rapes though the black male on white female rape number is absolutely astronomical though it would be somewhat lower without communist activities making many blacks racist against whites. Arabs took I think it was about 200 million blacks from Africa and when you see television coverage from the middle east how many black people not in the US armed forces do you see? None. How does that compare against the blacks living in America? What does that say about how white people treated blacks as property versus Arabs to blacks as sexual slaves to later be killed? If you own property especially a person making goods that you will sell you would want them to be in good shape to get more work done and remember the communists want you to think whites hid in bushes waiting to capture blacks and bring them across the Atlantic but it was blacks who enslaved and sold other blacks and slavery, child warfare, slavery and all sorts of other despicable things still happen to this day in Africa.
See communism wants you to think the opposite of everything. In example they preach against slavery though in America it's more profitable to foreclose a house early to destroy a person's credit than to make more money in the long term and having the person pay off their house, why? Financial slavery. Plus communists don't want strong families and they want as much social disorder as they can get. All those jokes about marriage? Well it does effect people like the ones on their fifth or sixth marriage, not something any child should have to endure.
The etiquette, mannerisms, social interactions and various other types of behaviors vary widely between races. In example Asia has to deal with overpopulation and so they place a much lower value on individuals. When Americans fought in Vietnam the Vietnamese would swarm American locations with high losses to their own forces, it's commonly known that they make up for in numbers what they lack in other aspects therefore treating one of their people are not being equal to the whites they fought otherwise they would have relied on different tactics. If you disagree then you probably don't understand the mentality of people who eat cats and dogs, you might want to reconsider what you think to be true.
The "human race" is another communist term to dilute people's sense of identity. It barrels down to this: communists are racist scum and their only goal is to profit at everyone else's losses. Your iPod in example cost dozens of suicides at Foxconn in China because the communists are trying to outsource all the manufacturing in America to China. Once they destroy the dollar (which they have, you just don't know it except that you think things are more expensive when it's really the money in your hand is worth less) America will not have the manufacturing capabilities to trade out of a massive depression giving rise to Communist China as the replacing world power.
Where does that leave America and Europe? Look up "rape rape rape billboard" on Google images and you'll find the communists are encouraing blacks and arabs to go to Europe to commit genocide against whites there while communists like Nancy Pelosi and Harry Ried (who both pose as Christians though are really jews) work to make it as easy for illegal aliens (none of whom are white) invade and stay in America.
The whole goal is white genocide. Why? You can complain all day that people of different races are equal just like you can say gravity doesn't exist. Obviously there is a difference between being equal and treating people equal. Communists can say whites are all evil racists (which is what they do with the white guilt BS) but of all the people going to Africa from America how many are over there helping are white and black? I've only seen 100% of the people over there from America being white (and the Chinese are also over in Africa helping blacks). If white people are so evil how come with about 95% of inventions, scientific breakthroughs and other various technologies are in the hands of everyone else? When you see people going to help Earthquake victims in example what color are the people going there to help out? They're white. There's a differnce between not dating a black girl and a jew telling blacks to kill white farmers in South Africa (another topic for readers to research). The goal there? The whites grow most of the food, kill the whites and both the whites and blacks starve.
Black and hispanic neighborhoods have more crime, the aids rates are higher, etc. To destroy the world the communists have to attack white people because who else has kicked as much ass as we have? Napoleon, Hitler and Alexander the Great conquered vast parts of the world. The Great British Empire once ruled practically all of the known world at one time and the trading empires of the Portuguese, the Spanish, the French...need I go on? The Japanese dropped millions of bombs in World War II, we ultimately only had to drop two to make our point. When Americans capture prisoners they are generally treated pretty well (and the communists emphasize the few jackasses who shouldn't have been in the armed forces to begin with) though does anyone remember what the Japanese did to Americans when they were captured? What was the name of that death march? I'm not saying this to demean people though to point out the truth: people aren't equal. That's not an insult because the intent of all of this to to prevent people from falling in to communism's trap of getting yourselves in to complex situations that will ultimately be too complicated to have an end result where everyone benefits.
I'm saying these things because they have to be said. You date your own race because even if you're not at the top you only disempower your children by destroying their heritage. I've known a few blacks to work really hard (a lot of them don't) though instead of having them stay in their neighborhoods as examples for younger blacks to look up to and inspire their own people the communists move them in to white neighborhoods because they want them to mix with whites. Everyone loses.
Conspiracy theories, racist, anti-semitic, meanie-meanie, ha-ha so funny you're silly, etc...these are the stereotypical responses from communists and they are everywhere forcing their genocidal racist garbage down everyone's throats. You'll know they're communist if their replies have no substance to them. If they can't drown out a voice like mine they resort to character assassination (look at the bogus rape charges against the founder of Wikileaks). Who are communists? They're jews of course though non-jewish communists are referred to as useful idiots because it's easy to believe ideal lies.
So here are a few points I'd like to make so things are pretty cut and clear here...
1.) You marry your own race out of respect for your own people and to respect the boundaries of other groups of people that you do not belong to.
2.) You don't have sex outside of your race or outside of marriage or very serious relationships and in those circumstances you don't have sex outside of your race as it is considered rape and a much more violent act of racism than calling someone a racial slur.
3.) Regardless of your race make sure you're educated, the last thing any one in any group needs are ignorant children because they are easily manipulated.
4.) Treat others with respect and if respect isn't returned just don't talk to that person any more.
Everything I've said here can be verified and to identify communists who are overwhelmingly jewish you first detect their agendas though you confirm this with their surname (e.g. Abraham, Berkowitz, Bloom, Chernoff, Cohen, Dell, Eckstein, Edelstein, Emanuel, Epstein, Feinberg, Feldman, Fisher, Fox, Frankel, Franklin, Friedberg, Gilbert, Ginsberg, Glazer, Gold, Goldberg, Goldblum, Goldensohn, Gordon, Haas, Haimovitz, Halle, Handelman, Harris, Hausmann, Hertz, Hoffman, Horowitz, Israel, Jacobs, Johansson, Jones are just some of many common surnames, many surnames are stolen when they infiltrated other people's lands mostly European/white countries though they spread all over the world and even to the smallest of islands to control everything ---- you can look up people on Wiki or look for sites that identify the origins of surnames. This is how they identify each other in order to help their own people while work in relative collusion to set different groups of people in to conflict. If jews make up 1% of the population then why are a fifth to even half of the people in the media, banking and in politics jewish? Pick up a magazine and start highlighting the surnames you can confirm are jewish, is the final number more than 1%? Is it more like 20 to 40%? Look at the credits for a movie, the directors and producers (e.g. Rick Bergman for Star Trek which is filled with communism). They want you to think it's capitalism that's out of control but look at the major stock holders and board members of companies (easy to look this up on Wiki in example). It's all there and it doesn't take much effort to actually look and see it for yourself.
To them we're cattle though there is a lot of irony. They are racial supremacists thinking they are superior to everyone[i] yet they murder, torture and intermarry with whites; would a white supremacist intermarry with a non-white? That's called hypocrisy. I highly recommend doing independent reading online to educate yourselves because they're not exactly discrete and it's easy to see in example that most conservative communists voted for Obama, say one thing but do another.
Here are some quotes to consider...
"The illegal we do immediately. The unconstitutional takes a little longer." - Henry Kissinger (jew)
"We must realize that our party's most powerful weapon is racial tension. By pounding into the consciousness of the dark races, that for centuries they have been oppressed by whites, we can mold them into the program of the Communist Party. In America, we aim for several victories. While inflaming the Negro minorities against the whites, we will instill in the whites a guilt complex for their supposed exploitation of the Negroes. We will aid the Blacks to rise to prominence in every walk of life and in the world of sports and entertainment. With this prestige,, the Negro will be able to intermarry with the whites and will begin the process which will deliver America to our cause." - Israel Cohen, A Radical Program For The Twentieth Century, entered into the Congressional Record on June 7, 1957, by Rep. Thomas Abernathy (jew).
Speaking at the MIPCOM conference in Cannes, Simmons said, "Make sure your brand is protected. Make sure there are no incursions. Be litigious. Sue everybody. Take their homes, their cars. Don't let anybody cross that line." - Gene Simmons of rock band Kiss (jew)
"Half the work that is done in the world is to make things appear what they are not." - E. R. Beadle
It's up to each person to be their own master, to educate themselves and to understand existence is what it is and [i]not what communists want you to think. If you think I'm going in to too many details than you probably wouldn't also comprehend the complexity of a computer chip with a billion transistors, how the electrical grid works, how the sewer systems work or other complex systems humanity has created. Life is not simple but communist replies are. A child has no choice in their ancestry though each person has the choice to act responsibly or do as racist jews instruct. Truth can not be racist though agendas certainly can.
Keep in mind there's a huge difference between dating someone outside of your race versus dating someone outside of your nationality. Say you dating a girl who's American born but of Chinese descent. You're likely to have more to relate to and hit it off great without crossing any racial and prejudice borders. Now say you date a girl who is a foreign exchange student from China. You're likely to come across from conflict as far as personal beliefs, political views, social stigma, personalities from having different traditions, etc.
That being said as a mixed race person, I find to some extent that race does have some (not a whole) factor in the personality of different people and you know how they say about personality being the strongest factor in a relationship. At the same time I find people who are strictly attracted to certain races (especially if it's outside their own) kinda creepy.
