Why I like Aspie girls the best!

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God, I really don't envy your girlfriend

I don't know if anyone else cares but I think these stereotypes are insulting.

Your problem is you think of everything in regards to diagnosis, which is, how shall I put it.. WRONG. There are no "ASPIE FEMALE TRAITS", especially not the ones you mentioned.

I really hope you are trolling because people can't be that f*****g stupid. Sorry.

So dont you realise that wanting someone to "adapt" to your needs is bossing them around which might cause them to wilt?

What do you plan on doing for them, anyway? Why should they revolve their whole life around you?

If the OP's being serious then I admire (is that the right word?) his honesty. It's better this way than having a guy pretending to be Prince Charming at the start of a relationship then turning into a controlling bully once his feet are under the table.

My former roommate kinda desired 'girly' girls, those that would stay in and be 'sweet' and innocent, supposedly someone that might wilt in an argument. And i suppose such a character would fit the ignorant world's image of an aspie woman. However for the record, this is the opposite of what I would ever want

You don't know he's repeating what he writes here to potential dates. They might not know he's a controlling bully at all.

I should hope you don't take the idea of us aspie girls being made of awesome as comical x

No, all my favourite girls are aspies.

I just perceive Booster's unsavoury adventures in woman shaping to be a subtle and sometimes amusing test of our ability to detect p*ss taking.

I admire men who will stand up for you. After dating some that won't after their friends and family are cruel to you, I'd find that refreshing.

What makes you say he is likely to be a bully? Because he wants a submissive girl? That does not indicate being a bully. You may want to know that many girls love to submit to their partner. You don't, but that's an entirely different matter.

Yes, there is a name for women like that: codependent. They do come to their senses eventually.

If you've seen the other sort of threads he makes, it's more than just wanting a "submissive girl" It's more like wanting a slave or a caged rat.

Those who merely need guidance do come to their "senses", yes. But those who are truly submissive do not. I am sorry if this upsets you to hear, but I happen to know I am right on this. And no, I won't provide proof. Go on living in your little lie of a world; it probably suits you rather well.

My world is a lie? You dont know me. How can you say that? You have only seen one sentence I have written.

I dont see how it benefits anyone, man or woman, to be subservient to someone. I can understand BDSM games, but these games have rules built in to protect the people who wish to participate. The whole point of BDSM is that people keep their rights whether they wish to be dominant or submissive.

I dont mind that, but for someone to choose being submissive as a lifestyle I cannot understand. How on earth can you take care of any of your own needs if you have to put someone else first? What happens if the female is the submissive one, and kids come along, and the man realises that he no longer has someone looking after his every need? He is going to throw one hell of a big toddler tantrum, that is for sure.

*That* part of your world is a lie. I didn't mean your whole world is; I'm sure it probably isn't. It just very heavily bothers me when those who want submissives are seen as evil or disturbed, and those who wish to be submissive are seen as confused or lacking in intellect. This view is very much untrue, and indeed, those who think this is the way things fundamentally are in the world are living in a lie.

Being submissive doesn't necessarily mean that you are a servant to your dominant partner. In fact, the dominant one may well be more of the "servant", since the dom has to take constant care of his/her sub. Or at least, that's how it often can be; that is the kind of relationship that I myself desire; we must, of course, not forget that there are many doms that abuse their positions. What those people really are, are, in fact, no more than a sort of predator, or at the very least a mere abuser. But as with all other things in this world, one should not assume the same things about other people, just because they hold similarities to those who act in, for instance, a predatory or bullying fashion. Being the submissive, or even the slave in a Master/slave relationship, can be a purely consenting choice of the submissive; a choice to submit so they finally can feel happy; "completed", even, as the wording easily can be. It does not mean that the submissive is confused or dumb, and it does not mean that the dominant is evil or disturbed.

However, I'd like to point out that I do not know what boosterjones has been writing, before, except for the thread about him wanting a 'kept' woman... a thread even less strange than this one, since this one kind of is stereotypical... he probably wasn't entirely serious with those stereotypes, though.

I've seen enough of boosterjones' posts to know that he is disturbed, the things he's come out with about mind manipulation and giltrips etc yeah some normal people might like being submissive, whatever. Some dominant people may not be completely screwed up in their way of thinking. He doesn't seem to be one of them.

Answering seriously.

1. Naturally you want to be attracted to someone. Make sure you do the same. Do not apply cologne please unless you want to torture me with migraines and nausea.

2. Friendly with you or other people or both? I am friendly until someone is a jerk repeatedly.

3. Playful and childlike. That I am. I love to play hide and seek and scare people. Unfortunately, if you jumped out and tried to scare me, I might punch you.

4. Laid back. I am most calm and laid back when I don't have to deal with the majority of people.

5. Loving. Only to those who are worth loving.

6. Likes to be protected. Yes because I've grown tired of dating people who allow their friends and family to treat me like s**t and sometimes even join in on the fun at my expense. When I stand up for myself after growing tired of it and loss of patience, they then all f**k with my head while I am trying to contain a meltdown.

7. I don't worship any human.

8. Most of my hobbies are indoor but I also have outdoor hobbies like gardening and rock collecting. If you declared that was no longer an option, you'd piss me off.

9. Good listener? Yes. Not very many people can get away with changing the details later on to suit new stories however so I hope you are honest.

10. Will stand by you through thick and thin? Only if it's not one sided.

11. Is romantic? Define romance.