Being attracted to people who really annoy you

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TeaEarlGreyHot
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04 Feb 2011, 12:32 am

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My husband often annoys the sh** out of me. That's merely the surface, though. I willingly chose to deal with that aspect of his personality because when I went deeper we had a lot in common, were able to relate to each other, and he's a very good person.

I don't think that is what we are talking about here.

Think of a well bred man who becomes obsessed with an underage prostitute, or a well bred young woman who is obsessed with a Hell's Angel.

Equal measures of lust and disgust.

That's not the impression I got from the OP.

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04 Feb 2011, 5:09 am

I wasn't really talking about disgust, more irritation, but by all means let the conversation open up. Maybe disgust is a lot like irritation.

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04 Feb 2011, 5:11 am

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I like your new avatar.

Thanks zen_mistress

Do you happen to know what painting it's from?

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04 Feb 2011, 6:02 am

It's common for me to feel like/think about ******* someone if I'm attracted to them and their self in general irritates the hell out of me at the same time. Maybe to get them to stop being so annoying for once? Or maybe just to take out my resentment for them in the best way possible. I don't know. It's one of those things that drive my mind wild a bit 'cause I can't totally understand it.

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04 Feb 2011, 8:05 am

angry sex with someone who annoys the hell out of you, is very satisfying.

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04 Feb 2011, 8:14 am

It is a very sexual attraction, which seems rare for me these days.

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04 Feb 2011, 8:18 am

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It happens to me all the time. I figure that my body has a mind of its own.

I don't know if there is a proper word for it but yes you can be attracted and repulsed at the same time.

I'll give you an example. The actress Sissy Spacek.
She often plays characters who are vulnerable and sad and more than a little crazy.

Half of me wants to reach out and comfort her and the other half of me recoils in horror.

sissy is a BABE but unfortunately is unreachable.

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04 Feb 2011, 8:24 am

unfortunately, the lions' share of sexylicious people KNOW they are sexylicious and have an off-putting concomitant arrogance. drat. most people who are kind and un-arrogant, are that way because they have no other options. the lucky lookers, OTOH, have more options and they can afford to piss most people off, because the people that count for them [other lookers or $$$bags] will consider them worth the $$$ and trouble in general.

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04 Feb 2011, 8:33 am

auntblabby wrote:

i don't think it's that because they're sexy they're arrogant, it's more they've got used to the way they've been treated because of that.
like a little pretty girl has been told every day she's a gorgeous little princess by her parents, grows up to think she's entitled to that.

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04 Feb 2011, 6:03 pm

Moog wrote:

I wasn't really talking about disgust, more irritation, but by all means let the conversation open up. Maybe disgust is a lot like irritation.

Not for me. For me, disgust overwhelms attraction.

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04 Feb 2011, 6:17 pm

Oh, that's easy. They're arousing a tension and typically things like anger or agitation are easily flipped for a lot of people. I guess it just goes to show how close those circuits are in proximity.

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04 Feb 2011, 6:18 pm

Moog wrote:

I wasn't really talking about disgust, more irritation, but by all means let the conversation open up. Maybe disgust is a lot like irritation.

Irritation is nothing like disgust in my experience.

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04 Feb 2011, 6:23 pm

emlion wrote:

angry sex with someone who annoys the hell out of you, is very satisfying.

I still haven't caved to that sort of impulse to date but maybe I should one of these days.

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04 Feb 2011, 10:21 pm

I've been attracted to women who most people find very annoying. I also tend to find annoying things in someone extremely cute when I like em. I also become attracted to women who annoy me after I know em a while & they are nice to me

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05 Feb 2011, 12:04 am

techstepgenr8tion wrote:

I don't think I'm easily irritated. I mean, I manage to read a lot of WP.

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05 Feb 2011, 12:20 am

Moog wrote:

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I like your new avatar.

Thanks zen_mistress

Do you happen to know what painting it's from?

I dont know. Is it one of the Little Princes?

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