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emlion
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09 Feb 2011, 4:52 pm

once a cheat, always a cheat.



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10 Feb 2011, 5:54 am

I've never cheated. Been cheated on, yes. But never cheated.



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10 Feb 2011, 7:30 am

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I am NT with an Aspie bf who has cheated on me a number of times. He now says he has told me the whole truth and does not want to cheat again....do I believe him?


Neurology is no excuse for cheating, get shot of him asap.


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10 Feb 2011, 7:32 am

Daemonic-Jackal wrote:
gez wrote:

I am NT with an Aspie bf who has cheated on me a number of times. He now says he has told me the whole truth and does not want to cheat again....do I believe him?


Neurology is no excuse for cheating, get shot of him asap.


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If he's already done it loads of times, he won't even think twice about doing it again.



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10 Feb 2011, 8:46 am

I have never cheated and I never will, it's immoral and hurtful to the other person.

Also, I have always wondered, where do people find the time and energy to cheat anyway? I think being with one person is enough....


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12 Feb 2011, 1:09 am

ive never cheated, and i never will; my last girlfriend cheated on me though. actually, im pretty certain every girl i have ever been with has cheated on me..f***ing b****s



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12 Feb 2011, 2:45 am

Nope. I've been on the other side. I could never do that to someone else.



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12 Feb 2011, 8:06 am

Asp-Z wrote:
I've never cheated. Been cheated on, yes. But never cheated.


I was this way.. I had a ex for like 11 yrs.. she cheated on me 2 times..

I decided one day to cheat on her, just to even the score so to speak.. Anyway i didnt like myself afterwards because i thought i was using the other person. So needless to say if someone cheats on me i will probably just leave them or something..

I dont think the other person cheating on you and then revenge cheating is good because in theory it should even the score but in reality it makes one feel like a slut or something(Im a guy dont know the word for slut in guy terms. I heard its god.)

I would just leave that person though if it came down to someone cheating in me again.

Although, I have found out I am very lax on how someone cheats, I thought cheating was considered actual intercourse.. Is this wrong? When you have sex that is considered cheating? nothing before it?