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21 Feb 2011, 10:19 pm

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Do you ever wonder if you've just had your identity jostled or head messed with in too many ways from hard knocks to even be right for the dating scene anymore? Sometimes I feel like Will Smith in I Am Legend, like I'm simply run too ragged to go back.


OP, I think we all go through what you're going through right now....kind of an ebb and flow of psychological and spiritual energy (the kind that's necessary to feed hope - cause you've got to have hope in order to date). Dating, work, school, life....it all exacts a price. Every so often you just have to take the time to recharge. It's not an "end" or "stopping point" - just another turn in the circle of life.

But since you know that you're not feeling quite up to dating right now, just take a break. IMO, it's not a good idea to try to force yourself to be in a relationship when your heart's just not in it. If you meet a great girl, you won't be able to be the best partner you can be right now, and you'll both end up hurt and disappointed.


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21 Feb 2011, 10:21 pm

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:lol: I guess the film wasn't holding my attention to well.

What about 28 days later?

I'm no zombie purist, or general undead pedant.


"28 Days Later" is the absolute shizzle. Awesome movie filled with intensity and quality kills.


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21 Feb 2011, 10:57 pm

I like my zombies fast or slow. Fast zombies may be slightly more authentic when described as living plague victims rather than the undead but really it doesnt bother me either way. If they are apocolypse zombies who are animated by the wrath of god it really doesnt seem right to complain about the nature of the magic animating them.

IAnd I liked the book of I am Legend better. He was a legend not to the survivors but to the vampires. He came for them when they were weak and became a creature of nightmare to them.