For those girls without boyfriends do you fantasize?

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25 Feb 2011, 12:25 am

I imagine what it's like to cuddle with a guy I like, so yes.

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25 Feb 2011, 5:25 am

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:

I hate to sound creepy but I fantasize at night in my bed about what it would be like to be sleeping with my perfect guy. Stroking his hair, skin, kissing him and everything nice :oops:

Thats not creepy thats completely normal and healthy.

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25 Feb 2011, 12:52 pm

Wombat wrote:

Silhouette-Song wrote:

I like pretty, lean, feminine, sensitive, yet nerdy guys. The chance of finding a straight boy like that is very low D:

Aren't there any Goths or Emos where you live?

Goths and Emos annoy me so I wouldn't date them. What I truly want is a cross dressing boyfriend...

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27 Feb 2011, 12:15 am

well listen i know what you mean (except as a boy looking for a girlfriend) i actually i feel that not only does she have to look at least decent but act decent and well i want a gf that can look, feel, and act good at the same time so i know you feel that way to (only as a girl looking for a guy) so i hope you find the guy you want

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27 Feb 2011, 4:19 am

Before I had ever had a boyfriend, I didn't fantasize about what he would be like, I just knew I wanted one. And now, when I'm in between relationships I do the same thing pretty much. I don't fantasize about the actual guy, but I'll recognize if I'm lonely and wanting another boyfriend.

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28 Feb 2011, 1:07 pm

ill admit that i do fantasize about having a girlfreind and that i want one i am kinda sad i dont have a girlfreind

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28 Feb 2011, 3:00 pm

Silhouette-Song wrote:

Wombat wrote:

Silhouette-Song wrote:

I like pretty, lean, feminine, sensitive, yet nerdy guys. The chance of finding a straight boy like that is very low D:

Aren't there any Goths or Emos where you live?

Goths and Emos annoy me so I wouldn't date them. What I truly want is a cross dressing boyfriend...

@Silhouette-Song, have you ever read Dan Savage's column (Savage Love)? He's kinda like the connection between the vanillas of the world and the alternative lifestylists. There's probably a community of straight, cross-dressing men out there somewhere.

Savage Love

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28 Feb 2011, 3:03 pm

i have a boyfriend and i fantasize about him when he's away sometimes.

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28 Feb 2011, 8:00 pm

HopeGrows wrote:

Silhouette-Song wrote:

Wombat wrote:

Silhouette-Song wrote:

I like pretty, lean, feminine, sensitive, yet nerdy guys. The chance of finding a straight boy like that is very low D:

Aren't there any Goths or Emos where you live?

Goths and Emos annoy me so I wouldn't date them. What I truly want is a cross dressing boyfriend...

Thanks I'll look it up.

That makes me happy.

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01 Mar 2011, 2:50 am

xxZeromancerlovexx wrote:

I hate to sound creepy but I fantasize at night in my bed about what it would be like to be sleeping with my perfect guy. Stroking his hair, skin, kissing him and everything nice :oops:

Me too.

~sighs dreamily~

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01 Mar 2011, 3:20 am

emlion wrote:

i have a boyfriend and i fantasize about him when he's away sometimes.

Ditto.
Also, before we got together I used to fantasize about him sometimes (we'd gone out when we were younger, but I hadn't seen him in years). Turns out the reality was better than the fantasy!

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01 Mar 2011, 8:13 am

Alycat wrote:

emlion wrote:

i have a boyfriend and i fantasize about him when he's away sometimes.

Ditto.
Also, before we got together I used to fantasize about him sometimes (we'd gone out when we were younger, but I hadn't seen him in years). Turns out the reality was better than the fantasy!

If you're with the right person it always is. :heart:

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03 Mar 2011, 2:39 am

I cannot and never could imagine what having a boyfriend would be like. I wouldn't know what to do, so I couldn't make up fantasies ahead of time for it either.

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19 Apr 2011, 12:02 pm

emlion wrote:

Alycat wrote:

emlion wrote:

i have a boyfriend and i fantasize about him when he's away sometimes.

Ditto.
Also, before we got together I used to fantasize about him sometimes (we'd gone out when we were younger, but I hadn't seen him in years). Turns out the reality was better than the fantasy!

If you're with the right person it always is. :heart:

true but what if you cant find a girlfriend outside of the internet?

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19 Apr 2011, 12:22 pm

domino wrote:

true but what if you cant find a girlfriend outside of the internet?

Well, what have you done to try and help yourself find one?

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23 Apr 2011, 3:58 pm

I think anyone whose judgement is clouded and impaired by love, all you see is your lover. For the rest of us, married, single, has a BF/GF, fantasizing about an ideal lover (emotionally, physically, or both) is normative.

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