How are you at getting women at clubs?

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Why on earth would you try to pull people at "clubs"

I goto them for the music not for a glorified meat market. Even better if the other people going are as enthusiastic about the same kinda music as me

...What?...You're too cheap to pay for sex so you go to a club to get it? If you're going to a club to find romance, you're out of your mind. Clubs are meat markets....filled with mad cows.

LOL! I REALLY like that!!

Judging by the dancing abilities of some Foot and mouth disease is present too

I'm only 5'6"! I've not had too much luck with people outside of my group, there have been occasions when my social skill have stoped it happening though.

I agree with the people who said clubs are the worst way to get a date, or pick up someone decent. If you go at all, you go for the dancing. If you don't like the dancing then then don't waste your time with them.

Taking "advantage" of drunk women. Those women get drunk because they want a man on top of them but don't want the responsibility of making the decision to have sex. A "selective" women in a club will cheat too. The selective ones in fact are cheating.

Had a little luck at clubs once I figured them out. But you really do have to check your brain and shame at the door. You approach women, dance with them, build sexual tension ...... wash, rinse, repeat. You have to be a little classy by formally introducing yourself and make a good impression with a girl's friends before getting farther. That dispells much of the creep factor so when you seduce her, logistics is the only obstacle left.

Above all, be fun. Being cool, stylish, or smooth are overrated. When people cut loose they're very sensation-oriented, and gravitate to whatever is most interesting and gives them the biggest high. Much like how cats like to chase anything that moves or is shiny.

Nothing about clubbing appeals to me so I've never been to one.

Then there's that, too. You have to pass her girlfriends approval test. Guys ain't like that, but if a woman doesn't like a guy, she doesn't want ANYONE to like him. She'll swoop in and "save" her friend by shifting her away. But I don't think being nice or upstanding really helps anything, no offense. They judge you more on how you look it seems, and how you're dressed.

I'm with most people here. I've decided clubbing and pub crawls just aren't the best ways to meet people.

This.

Although to be clear, I do make a distinction between clubs and bars. Nothing generally wrong with bars, or those that frequent them.

Deadeyexx is actually successful in this area. It's worthwhile to get his advice.

I use to run a promotion company out of college so I went to alot of clubs, I could almost never dance with a girl I liked let alone take her home, I have only had 1 one night stand in America, not by choice. I believe its mostly because I am 5'6 , hairy like a teady bear and don't have a six pack.
When I was living in South America I could dance with pretty much any single girl I wanted to. Women aren't as loose there so one night stands really didn't happen. Although I would force myself to talk to every single girl that I was attracted to that passed my by walking on the street, supermarket, I got alot of numbers this way, still the girls that I was able to get were nowhere near as attractive as the girls I could pay for sex. Unfortunatley I am out of money and back in America, land of forced abstinance for guys like me.

I just thought of something I also run into. Sometimes her friends will do the saving thing, but only because it seems they get jealous you asked their friend and not them.

I don't go to clubs. I would if I knew people going, was invited by them, and could get there easily without having to worry about weirdos on buses or missing the train.

I think I'd prefer listening to music on my ipod really. I'd go if there was a club that just played my kinda music though, but I dunno any clubs that just play Rammstein, Radiohead and Eminem

Also I do NOT dance. Repeat. I do NOT dance!

I'm not surprised with that music!

Only kidding, I like some of them too! I don't know of any clubs that only play them, no, you'd need to widen your input a little!