Accidentally cruel, what would you have done?

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I would honestly sooner never have a boyfriend then let someone I do not like touch me.
As though I would tell someone I barely know that I had not been kissed.
The boyfriend thing was me following advice from my sister and flatmates.
I am not going to comment on this/my thread again. As I sense unwanted confrontation looming on the horizon, thank you everyone for your help and advice it really did make a difference.

"ta ta" is a mandarin phase. It means vendetta- I am going to kill you. not really. my auntie says ta ta for goodbye.

@Josieposie

Get a restraining order, simple as that.

The same thing. You get my vote for having handled it properly. Not all situations like this get sewn up neatly and painlessly. Some get pretty messy, actually. If you're looking for advice beyond that, mine would be to keep this episode and the whole never-been-kissed issue separate. They don't have anything to do with one another. You aren't remotely attracted to this guy, and that's really all that matters here.

You did the right thing some guys you just have to tell them and be strait forward about it that you dont like him like that an if he still trys to touch you then you have to tell some one that he is bothering you I like guys and girls I would not like it for them to harrass me that way I know what your going threw when all been their at some point in our lifes

You told him politely that you weren't interested in him and he wouldn't take "no" for an answer. You are in your right to say that you are not interested in him romantically. The fact he continues to text you is harassment on his part and he must stop.