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ConfusedDude
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23 Jun 2011, 8:15 am

In my topic I accidently put Valley Girls. What I wanted to put was country girls.



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23 Jun 2011, 12:52 pm

It is guaranteed there are a bunch of 15-year-old girls out there who are wondering why they can't get a boyfriend. I used to be one of them. I was too shy to make eye contact or talk with a boy. There were a lot of boys I would have gone out with if they had just asked.


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24 Jun 2011, 2:57 pm

Erisad wrote:
Lol, didn't you hear? There are no real girls on the internet. :roll:


sorry, but you're wrong. I'm as real as it gets (sorry to ConfusedDude but I'm taken) and I'm always on the internet. I'm an internet nerd. not to say I'm totally weird as well since I'm (probably) an aspie, but still. I don't wanna be mean but it just makes me mad when people say this.

because sexism in general really ruffles my jimmies. :I

edit: I don't want to sound full of myself either though... because I'm not. I hope people don't think that.



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25 Jun 2011, 4:15 am

Mandie wrote:
ConfusedDude wrote:
Come on. Isn't there any girl out there?

Hi im Mandi and ive never had a relationship. Im 14-15 yrs old and ill give u some advise of trying to get a girl. Firstly u need to make them b ur friend (like an actual friend, not a girlfriend) and act normal. As time goes on she will become a better friend and u will soon be going out with her!


yeah Mandie is spot on. Ive had 3 ex girlfriends and my current GF and all of those started as friendships and gradually melded into a relationship. you cant be stressing out over '' does she like me? what if she doesnt like me!??" because if u think like that you wont have any female friends at all because you only approach girls to try be their boyfriend. you gotta be able to befriend them as a legitimate friend before you can even try dating them.....well at least at age 15!

and just cus u never had a girlfriend at 15 doesnt mean anything. At. All. A lot of NT people dont even have gf/bfs at 15....I myself met my ex when I was 17 and never had any experience before that....so yeah dont be so hard on yourself.