Anyone want to date an imprisoned felon?

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30 Jun 2011, 3:18 am

I found one who said she made a "little mistake." She's not eligible for release until 2020. Some mistake.



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30 Jun 2011, 8:09 am

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OP: That's extremely dangerous ...

Agreed. Sending your address to anyone inside any prison for any reason could really lead to big trouble since prison gangs need outside contacts to do all kinds of things for them.


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30 Jun 2011, 3:07 pm

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I found one who said she made a "little mistake." She's not eligible for release until 2020. Some mistake.


Nine more years of prison food will takes its toll.

Anyway, I get the impression that the ladies have a higher interest in felons than the gents do. Why is that?



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30 Jun 2011, 3:20 pm

pandabear wrote:
johnsmcjohn wrote:
I found one who said she made a "little mistake." She's not eligible for release until 2020. Some mistake.


Nine more years of prison food will takes its toll.

Anyway, I get the impression that the ladies have a higher interest in felons than the gents do. Why is that?

my opinion.... more felons are men so it's something we associate with male behaviour. a female felon is much more rare and may seem a little odd.


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30 Jun 2011, 5:01 pm

This may be a little off-topic but why are SOME women attracted to felons :?:


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30 Jun 2011, 5:19 pm

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This may be a little off-topic but why are SOME women attracted to felons :?:
i can't speak for other women and i don't think there is one single reason for everyone. for me, i was attracted to a man who was also a felon. i have also dated a cook, a clerk, and a guitarist. but it's not like i am attracted to every single cook, clerk, guitarist, or felon i meet.


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30 Jun 2011, 5:58 pm

Also, with a convicted felon, one might reduce the perceived risk that the object of one's affections ends up being the quintessential "nice guy" about whom we've heard so many bad things.



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30 Jun 2011, 6:02 pm

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Also, with a convicted felon, one might reduce the perceived risk that the object of one's affections ends up being the quintessential "nice guy" about whom we've heard so many bad things.


this is one of those times when i feel the need to eradicate all humans from earth. Women whine that all good guys are either married or gay, yet they end up with a bad boy and what not. Wonder why theres no good guys around huh?



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30 Jun 2011, 8:46 pm

Well, if you can't compete with an incarcerated felon, then maybe its time to hang it up.



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30 Jun 2011, 8:54 pm

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Well, if you can't compete with an incarcerated felon, then maybe its time to hang it up.

Or rob a bank


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30 Jun 2011, 9:12 pm

There you go. I never heard of robbing a bank as a way to impress chicks, before. But, it seems like a fool-proof plan.



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30 Jun 2011, 10:41 pm

There must be easier ways to meet meth addicted hookers.



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30 Jun 2011, 11:20 pm

MXH wrote:
pandabear wrote:
Also, with a convicted felon, one might reduce the perceived risk that the object of one's affections ends up being the quintessential "nice guy" about whom we've heard so many bad things.


this is one of those times when i feel the need to eradicate all humans from earth. Women whine that all good guys are either married or gay, yet they end up with a bad boy and what not. Wonder why theres no good guys around huh?

for me, it wasn't cuz he was a bad guy or anything. he wrote poetry and made art and cared about my feelings. doesn't get more "nice guy" than that.


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01 Jul 2011, 4:11 am

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Also, with a convicted felon, one might reduce the perceived risk that the object of one's affections ends up being the quintessential "nice guy" about whom we've heard so many bad things.


this is one of those times when i feel the need to eradicate all humans from earth. Women whine that all good guys are either married or gay, yet they end up with a bad boy and what not. Wonder why theres no good guys around huh?

for me, it wasn't cuz he was a bad guy or anything. he wrote poetry and made art and cared about my feelings. doesn't get more "nice guy" than that.

Was it because he was a bad guy with a soft side :?:


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01 Jul 2011, 4:14 pm

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i was penpals with an inmate when i was 16, and he was 22.

he used to draw tattoo-style art pictures with red, black, and blue ink pens on the inside of old cigarette packages. he had trouble finding blank paper, so when he wrote letters he would write really tiny so that he would not waste space.

he was in for grand theft auto and felony theft charges. about 6 months later he was released, when he was 23 and i was 17. we dated for a few weeks. on our first date, he picked me up in a stolen car and gave me a stuffed animal he lifted from a department store.

that car ran out of gas and my parents knew what the deal was. they brought us a jerry can of gas, and didn't say a word until after i had broken up with him. they knew all about him, as i did not hide his background. i think they decided they had no right to judge as my dad did time in his youth too.

this guy tried to turn his life around, but by the time he was 25 his rap sheet was pretty daunting. he was always looking for a mark and never content to live without constant adrenalin. he could not physically relax. every so often, when his life got too hard on the outside, he would commit a crime and stay on the scene to get caught. for him, it was easier to be on the inside.

i last saw him when i was about 27 and he was about 33. he was homeless, begging for money. i felt sad for him and didn't let him recognise me so that he would not be embarrassed, but i found a way to get a small amount of cash to him.

in my younger years i often ended up dating various types of mentally unstable men, but when i got older i went for more stable and honest types.


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01 Jul 2011, 4:59 pm

nick007 wrote:
hyperlexian wrote:
MXH wrote:
pandabear wrote:
Also, with a convicted felon, one might reduce the perceived risk that the object of one's affections ends up being the quintessential "nice guy" about whom we've heard so many bad things.


this is one of those times when i feel the need to eradicate all humans from earth. Women whine that all good guys are either married or gay, yet they end up with a bad boy and what not. Wonder why theres no good guys around huh?

for me, it wasn't cuz he was a bad guy or anything. he wrote poetry and made art and cared about my feelings. doesn't get more "nice guy" than that.

Was it because he was a bad guy with a soft side :?:

no i just didn't mind that he had done bad things. basically i didn't judge him too much for his bad choices. i judged him by how he treated me - the same yardstick i used against other men, whether they were sensitive artists or convicted felons.


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