When I kiss guys, i don't really feel anything???

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Don't kiss or make out with another guy just because you feel that you have to. If you really don't want to be with a certain person, don't expect to be "turned on" by them. Wait until you find a guy you genuinely care about to date, then you'll feel satisfied making out - and more.

... say what?
Actually, you are in a position to reject or accept.
... not that I would advocate one way or the other, but it is your choice.

to me, anything sexual just for the sake of doing it is not enjoyable. i can make myself do it by lying to myself, pretending i like the person or just telling myself, "this is what guys are supposed to do." however, i never enjoy it really. it is boring. i am a monogamous person who does not see the point in casual sex or hooking up.

i guess what i am saying is that you are not supposed to feel anything if you don't like the person. it is much better to kiss someone you are attracted to, like, and respect.

also, people used to say i was gay because of what i wrote in the first paragraph. i thought i was gay because everyone else said i was. i am not gay, i am monogamous. i don't like doing things until after me and the person know each other really well and i have an emotional connection with that person. if i can't see myself marrying her, i can't see myself kissing her or having sex with her.

i didn't lose my virginity until i was 21. i just couldn't do it without being 'in love' with the woman i was with. i finally talked myself into doing it with someone just so i wouldn't be a virgin anymore. it was the worst mistake of my life. don't let peer pressure make you do things that you don't like doing sexually. you'll only regret it.

I think I can guarantee that you will not feel a thing except disgust and regret unless you make out with someone you have genuine chemistry with, guy or girl.

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I've never really enjoyed kissing a boy either.

You really shouldn't make out with someone because you feel 'obligated' to.That's not showing much respect for yourself.
First off in the case that you've got guys that are pressuring you to trade spit on the first date when you don't want to;you should dump them immediately and never give them the time of day again.Otherwise if you continue what else will they be pressuring you to do with them eventually?

And secondly if it's you who's initiating the kisses because of fear of rejection,you're only leading the boys on.Men tend to fall in love and become infatuated faster than women do.So don't give any of em a reason to fall in love with you,when you can't return the feelings.

I dunno your situation exactly,but those are my suggestions for two separate problems