Need help with my new Myspace friend!

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did you send her a request to be her friend on there? thats more than likely why she "added" you to myspace, unless she saw you're profile and you added her, i'd mack on her man, if its the one girl you like i'd let her know i was interested. good luck

Well not heard from her but she has not logged on since 9-5-2006 (the same day she
added me as a friend). You have to log on to read messages. Which means she has not
read my message yet. She logged on in June before this so maybe in 3 months I will
have an update. Anyway its clear she had no idea who I was and infact will be surpise
to get my message.

Hey, think positive. She wouldn't add you to her favourites list for no reason, now, would she?

I think you did the right thing by sending a message. If she only logs on occasionally then it won't mean anything if there's no reply for a while (whereas normally that would be a sign of disinterest). I appreciate you're feeling anxious about it, but be patient.

When she does reply, take it slowly. Girls are often very suspicious of anyone rushing in expressing heartfelt devotion within the first 10 minutes of saying hello - it tends to suggest that the man is a bit selfish: making assumptions and not listening to what she wants. Plus sadly many men claim to be in love just to gain consent for sex. I'm not saying you're like this - I'm saying that she may be cynical as a result of experiences with other men.

That said, I think this sounds really promising! Good luck

There was once a girl who I thought was 'perfect' for me way back at primary school, she only lived round the corner back then, of course I never had the guts to admit to it to her but I had a major crush on her. Anyway, we later moved to different schools and years passed then I happened to see her again working at the checkout of a store, I was too shy to say anything though even though I recognised her. But I was angry when I got home that I was such a coward, so I went back again the next day and she wasn't there

A couple of weeks later I happened to be there again and there she was! I managed to convince myself into talking to her, amazingly she still remembered me, we got talking and I got her email address. I eventually managed to grow the balls to ask her out, and.... got rejected as she had a boyfriend oh well at least I tried, otherwise I would have spent the rest of my life annoyed that I didn't.

Funny thing is, I was searching for some old school friends on myspace the other day and saw her on there. Now she used to be a little miss perfect, well-behaved type, the sort you take to meet your mother etc, but on her myspace page I see that she has dropped out of her sensible university degree for some dead end job, coloured her hair horribly, started smoking and taking many drugs, and basically turned into a slu*ty party wild child

I'm actually quite glad things never worked out now because otherwise she would probably have self destructed on me!

The important lesson is, try not to care too much about whether or not she is the 'perfect' girl for you(yeah I know harder than it sounds), because perfect girls will rarely live up the image of perfection you create in your mind.

Also if you care too much then you will inevitably stuff things up by doing something dumb. This makes you seem tense and girls get a little worried about that sometimes, so just try to play it cool, a little nervousness is ok, but for god sakes dont piss your pants or sweat like a drug courier with 5kg of cocaine in his butt going through customs.

But if you're getting the sense that she likes you (potential minefield figuring that out I'm afraid), then dont be afraid to tell her that you wished you had asked her before, chicks seem to love that whole idea of guys liking them from afar but being too shy, it's cute, and shows vunerability. But by now being strong and showing you are confident to ask her out, you demonstrate that you have what it takes to be a real man as well

Good luck mate, and remember it doesn't matter if it turns to crap, there are millions of other women out there, at least some of whom will be statistically compatible with you.

I been checking myspace for months now but she has not logged on since
9-5-2006. But I added another person to my favorites but I notice her profile
was updated Nov 6, 2005 Now I'm confused. Could she have read my message I sent her without logging in or change her profile without logging in?(I see no change to her profile).
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what a moron TM1 it said 2005 its 2006. No hiding this dumb post but atleast I'm not sad now