lilypadfad wrote:
I hate these self proclaimed Nice Girls who hang around male friends pretending to be nice hoping some feelings will develop between them.
See what I did there?

You are more than free to talk about that because AFAIK there are no self proclaimed nice girls with said attitude that are offended by this statement. If someone sent me a complaint I´d politely ask you/OP to reword your posts to make them as unoffensive as possible
As for the OP have you ever considered asking one of this male friends of yours to hang out for a coffee or something just the two of you?.
Ive read several stories about females/males that went unnoticed and while they complained about the situation they didnt actively try to improve things and prett much hoped that things will magically sort themselves out