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ValentineWiggin
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13 Sep 2011, 12:52 am

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But pretending women are shallow materialistic masochists is easier for some men than facing the reality that *they* as individuals turn women off.

And some women find it easier to say that I just have a negative attitude or lack confidence than to admit that they are superficial and manipulative.

Just because someone doesn't want to date you, it doesn't mean that they're shallow, materialistic or manipulative.

Of course it does. To suggest otherwise implies that he in fact has undesirable traits and is not a martyr.

How silly of you, HB.

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13 Sep 2011, 1:27 am

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I'm looking for a REAL woman who won't turn me down!!

Have you been turned down by a FAKE woman?

*imagines being dumped by a Real Doll*

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13 Sep 2011, 3:38 am

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Even though I have never had been in a realtionship IN more than three months, I would like to get back to the dating scene to meet the one true love I've been looking for my whole 29 years of life. Despite my hardships I couldn't completely control such as a having a mild stroke and Asperger's Syndrome, I am open to all kinds of women both neurotypical and special needs. I have worked WAY too hard not to get anything so I'm still going to what I love to do, but at the same time I want to share it all with the woman that I love if I ever meet her. There are REAL woman out there because I am a REAL man if you are looking for one as well.

Ladies, If you are single and looking for a REAL man in your life, message me :-)

Three months of singledom isn't long enough for me.

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13 Sep 2011, 6:27 am

Being "I" gods gift to women.... I can tell you that the dating preferences of women are based on trends. Kind of like commodities trading. And right now, real men are not part of the trend.

25 years ago, real men who have thick hair on their chest, and who built log cabins while hunting beavers in the woods where the trend.

But now it seams to be trending toward.... Kind of .... Maybe .... Jackoff with a lot of self esteem With no responsibility.... Kind of maybee.

Its confusing even for "I" gods gift to women... But if you try harder at catching the current trend you may have better luck "with the ladies"

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13 Sep 2011, 10:00 am

:lmao: :lol: ^

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13 Sep 2011, 10:12 am

ValentineWiggin wrote:

Right. I'm not a real person, just some intangible code in a CPU somewhere telling you you're flat-out deluded.
The avoidance of reality to the point of hilarity continues.

I'm just saying I never see these women who like geeks in real life. However, on the internet, I always see posts where women say "I like shy, awkard guys tee hee." Can we say attention whoring?

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You do have a negative attitude. You do lack confidence.
Otherwise you wouldn't insist on viewing 3.5 billion human beings on the basis of your pre-conceived notions in order to avoid critically-examining yourself.

3.5 billion? My beef is with American women, particularly those under 40.

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Have you been turned down by a FAKE woman?

*imagines being dumped by a Real Doll*

I would get one of those if I could afford it....she'd sure she treat me better than real women.

ValentineWiggin wrote:

Just because someone doesn't want to date you, it doesn't mean that they're shallow, materialistic or manipulative.
Of course it does. To suggest otherwise implies that he in fact has undesirable traits and is not a martyr.

Yeah I have undesirable traits....ugly and poor.

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13 Sep 2011, 11:43 am

SadAspy wrote:

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You need money, good looks, or you need to be a bad boy. Aspies are never the latter, so really are the only first two are options. Without these things, women couldn't care less about you.

that's not actually true, though. many poor and nice men, who are less goodlooking in any stereotypical way, manage to find partners. even aspies do. you're making massive generalisations that have no basis in reality.

My bf is a broke as a joke 122 lb history nerd, and I'm nuts about him.

It sure is strange how these women only exist on the internet.

perhaps you do not run across them in real life because your hobbies and interests do not overlap. we are a giant aspie group... do you even attend an aspie group in real life? if not, then of course you have little chance of meeting someone like us.

also perhaps you are prejudging the women you meet and see in real life. not every one of them is with a rich man or a handsome man or a bad boy - for you to even hint otherwise is not a valid assertion. the proof is all around you.

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But pretending women are shallow materialistic masochists is easier for some men than facing the reality that *they* as individuals turn women off.

And some women find it easier to say that I just have a negative attitude or lack confidence than to admit that they are superficial and manipulative.

i don't really see hoe she can be superficial considering her boyfriend's specs, and i don't see how she is being manipulative as she is not trying to convince you to do anything except to lay off the inaccurate generalisations.

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13 Sep 2011, 11:47 am

Ardent_Eccentric wrote:

9781853753954 by sunderbus, on Flickr
[img][img]http://farm7.static.flickr.com/6070/6143721588_c8c1093431.jpg[/img]ron_jeremy_0825 by sunderbus, on Flickr[/img]

*cough* ron jeremy largely performed for male audiences, not for female ones. i always thought he was kinda cute, but i am in the minority.

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13 Sep 2011, 11:50 am

EDIT: no point...

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13 Sep 2011, 12:09 pm

SadAspy wrote:

I'm just saying I never see these women who like geeks in real life. However, on the internet, I always see posts where women say "I like shy, awkard guys tee hee." Can we say attention whoring?

I have the impression that you don't meet many women in real life so I'm not sure how you'd know. Cynicism isn't a short cut to experience. Don't fool yourself into thinking it is.

In some ways you (and the guys like you on here) remind me of myself when I was younger. I was extremely delayed and borderline mute. I didn't complain or curse the gods but I *was* impervious to advice. When someone offered me unsolicited advice on the subject I would just shut down. When I was finally ready, I taught myself. That may or may not happen with you.

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13 Sep 2011, 12:18 pm

hyperlexian wrote:

EDIT: no point...

Too bad. I already saw it. I'm not attention-whoring...I am just speaking the truth. You and other posters feel threatened by me because you know I'm right.

I guess I just see a lot of bs on this forum, and it pisses me off, so I feel the need to rebut it.

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13 Sep 2011, 12:23 pm

SadAspy wrote:

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EDIT: no point...

except that... it isn't the truth.

i don't feel threatened by nonsense. the women you speak badly to are real human beings and deserve protection. and women as a group also do not deseve the comments that you make.

if you were correct in your nasty assertions, nobody would bother to ever counteract them.

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13 Sep 2011, 3:13 pm

Its really sad that guys often blame girls for not liking them or turning them down

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13 Sep 2011, 3:21 pm

:roll:

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13 Sep 2011, 3:30 pm

SadAspy wrote:

ValentineWiggin wrote:

Right. I'm not a real person, just some intangible code in a CPU somewhere telling you you're flat-out deluded.
The avoidance of reality to the point of hilarity continues.

I'm just saying I never see these women who like geeks in real life. However, on the internet, I always see posts where women say "I like shy, awkard guys tee hee." Can we say attention whoring?

I'm attention whoring because I dare to personally- contradict your laughable declarations about the female sex?
Lulz.

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3.5 billion? My beef is with American women, particularly those under 40.

Oh, I'm sorry. So you're only making up stories about the wants of TENS OF MILLIONS.
Gotcha. Shame on me for exaggerating! v :lol:

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Yeah I have undesirable traits....ugly and poor.

See above about my boyfriend, who's as broke as I am.

Oh, wait, anything contradicting your personally-conjured alternate reality is attention-whoring.
My bad.

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13 Sep 2011, 3:42 pm

Why don't you just stop looking?

Don't expect me to feed you that bullsh*t line that "you'll find someone when you stop looking" though... :roll:

You WILL be happier for it though, I know this from personal experience.

Yes rejection sucks, especially at first, but it's not the end of the freakin' world - Man-up and get over it, or at least accept the advice that people who are a lot more patient than I am are trying to give you here.

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