Perma-singles: be *this* guy

Page 2 of 3 [ 33 posts ]  Go to page Previous  1, 2, 3  Next

The_Face_of_Boo
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 16 Jun 2010
Age: 44
Gender: Non-binary
Posts: 33,678
Location: Beirut, Lebanon.

02 Oct 2011, 9:21 am

Image



zen_mistress
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 11 Jun 2007
Age: 48
Gender: Female
Posts: 6,033

02 Oct 2011, 7:48 pm

Moog wrote:
anna-banana wrote:
@zen_mistress have you considered hitch-hiking? it's a great way to travel long distance, and with truck drivers, they're usually happy to have any kind of company, and despite what most people think, they're safe because they're on a schedule.


Can't stop to murder now... gotta make a delivery *pops another handful of amphetamines*


Lol.. I dont know. I dont think my country is a very good one to hitch hike in, most drivers would be ok I guess but there are some weird people around and I dont want to chance upon anyone like that.


_________________
"Caravan is the name of my history, and my life an extraordinary adventure."
~ Amin Maalouf

Taking a break.


anna-banana
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 30 Aug 2008
Age: 43
Gender: Female
Posts: 5,682
Location: Europe

03 Oct 2011, 12:52 pm

zen_mistress wrote:
Moog wrote:
anna-banana wrote:
@zen_mistress have you considered hitch-hiking? it's a great way to travel long distance, and with truck drivers, they're usually happy to have any kind of company, and despite what most people think, they're safe because they're on a schedule.


Can't stop to murder now... gotta make a delivery *pops another handful of amphetamines*


Lol.. I dont know. I dont think my country is a very good one to hitch hike in, most drivers would be ok I guess but there are some weird people around and I dont want to chance upon anyone like that.


we are the weird people :wink:


_________________
not a bug - a feature.


NeantHumain
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 24 Jun 2004
Age: 46
Gender: Male
Posts: 4,837
Location: St. Louis, Missouri

03 Oct 2011, 12:57 pm

It's kind of hard to be an adventurer when one has a full-time, desk-based office job. Plus many of us would find skydiving, bungee-jumping, zip-lining over the Amazon, etc. too dangerous.



techstepgenr8tion
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 Feb 2005
Age: 46
Gender: Male
Posts: 24,718
Location: 28th Path of Tzaddi

03 Oct 2011, 1:01 pm

NeantHumain wrote:
It's kind of hard to be an adventurer when one has a full-time, desk-based office job.

Which, if you can save up your spair cash for investment or deposit in a good REIT - you may be on your way.

NeantHumain wrote:
Plus many of us would find skydiving, bungee-jumping, zip-lining over the Amazon, etc. too dangerous.

That's where physical conditioning comes in. I don't think I'd try many of these things straight out of the gate myself - I'd at least try to crawl before I walked *well - skydiving would really require the least, bungee requires a little bit of experience, zip-lining if that's holding on for dee life I'd definitely say hand strength is required).


_________________
The loneliest part of life: it's not just that no one is on your cloud, few can even see your cloud.


zen_mistress
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 11 Jun 2007
Age: 48
Gender: Female
Posts: 6,033

03 Oct 2011, 2:08 pm

anna-banana wrote:
zen_mistress wrote:
Moog wrote:
anna-banana wrote:
@zen_mistress have you considered hitch-hiking? it's a great way to travel long distance, and with truck drivers, they're usually happy to have any kind of company, and despite what most people think, they're safe because they're on a schedule.


Can't stop to murder now... gotta make a delivery *pops another handful of amphetamines*


Lol.. I dont know. I dont think my country is a very good one to hitch hike in, most drivers would be ok I guess but there are some weird people around and I dont want to chance upon anyone like that.


we are the weird people :wink:


We may look like the weird people, but the true weird people are ones that noone suspects are weird.


_________________
"Caravan is the name of my history, and my life an extraordinary adventure."
~ Amin Maalouf

Taking a break.


simon_says
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 20 Jan 2011
Gender: Male
Posts: 3,075

03 Oct 2011, 3:05 pm

...



Last edited by simon_says on 04 Oct 2011, 6:05 pm, edited 1 time in total.

willa
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 15 Oct 2008
Gender: Male
Posts: 994
Location: between bannings.

03 Oct 2011, 3:24 pm

It's actually illegal in the US to hitchhike and pick them up (may be a state to state thing and not federal though.)

You'll see some people though doing it on occasion. I worked a job where I drove a lot through the midwest and would see someone every so often. I always had the urge to pick them up, like I saw a hippy looking kid, dreads and all, with like 3 backpacks and a suitcase on the side of the road and figured no actual murderer would weigh themselves down with so much stuff (unless of course they were filled with his last victims =P.) I wanted to pick him up cause I figured he had a good story to tell and to help pass the next 4 or 5 hours of driving. If I were in my own car and not a company car I would have.

State side though, if you are a women I wouldn't recomend it. If a truck driver picks you up you will be asked to perform certain acts at somepoint while in the cab. I think the likelyhood of being pressured or forced is pretty slim, but you'd be best advised not to do it just to avoid the situation entirely =P.


_________________
?It's a sad thing not to have friends, but it is even sadder not to have enemies.? - El Che


Moog
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 25 Feb 2010
Age: 47
Gender: Male
Posts: 17,671
Location: Untied Kingdom

03 Oct 2011, 4:16 pm

willa wrote:
I always had the urge to pick them up, like I saw a hippy looking kid, dreads and all, with like 3 backpacks and a suitcase on the side of the road and figured no actual murderer would weigh themselves down with so much stuff (unless of course they were filled with his last victims =P.)


:lol:

Quote:
State side though, if you are a women I wouldn't recomend it. If a truck driver picks you up you will be asked to perform certain acts at somepoint while in the cab. I think the likelyhood of being pressured or forced is pretty slim, but you'd be best advised not to do it just to avoid the situation entirely =P.


They might make you do a Shakespearean soliloquy?


_________________
Not currently a moderator


MXH
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 28 Jul 2010
Age: 35
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,057
Location: Here i stand and face the rain

03 Oct 2011, 4:30 pm

did anyone stop to think that maybe being said guy is just not attainable for everyone?



techstepgenr8tion
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 Feb 2005
Age: 46
Gender: Male
Posts: 24,718
Location: 28th Path of Tzaddi

03 Oct 2011, 4:32 pm

No, because I believe its one, inspiring for those who can attain it and two, it makes those who can't take a second look to see if there aren't more local or reasonable parallels they can't grab. I'd rather single people at least count some of their blessings and realize that they can aim higher in some ways than their married parent friends can, that it's not all curse.


_________________
The loneliest part of life: it's not just that no one is on your cloud, few can even see your cloud.


MXH
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 28 Jul 2010
Age: 35
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,057
Location: Here i stand and face the rain

03 Oct 2011, 4:54 pm

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
No, because I believe its one, inspiring for those who can attain it and two, it makes those who can't take a second look to see if there aren't more local or reasonable parallels they can't grab. I'd rather single people at least count some of their blessings and realize that they can aim higher in some ways than their married parent friends can, that it's not all curse.


i think you fail to understand the human mind far too much. Humans are animals of want, not have.



Moog
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 25 Feb 2010
Age: 47
Gender: Male
Posts: 17,671
Location: Untied Kingdom

03 Oct 2011, 5:00 pm

MXH wrote:
did anyone stop to think that maybe being said guy is just not attainable for everyone?


Why should we only post things that are attainable for everyone?

That would basically include, breathing, eating, sleeping etc.

I think the message is basically this; if you can't get a girlfriend, just do something interesting instead.


_________________
Not currently a moderator


MXH
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 28 Jul 2010
Age: 35
Gender: Male
Posts: 13,057
Location: Here i stand and face the rain

03 Oct 2011, 5:05 pm

Moog wrote:
MXH wrote:
did anyone stop to think that maybe being said guy is just not attainable for everyone?


Why should we only post things that are attainable for everyone?

That would basically include, breathing, eating, sleeping etc.

I think the message is basically this; if you can't get a girlfriend, just do something interesting instead.

i know what the message is supposed to be. what im saying is that something interesting isnt always easy to do either.



techstepgenr8tion
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 6 Feb 2005
Age: 46
Gender: Male
Posts: 24,718
Location: 28th Path of Tzaddi

03 Oct 2011, 5:10 pm

MXH wrote:
techstepgenr8tion wrote:
No, because I believe its one, inspiring for those who can attain it and two, it makes those who can't take a second look to see if there aren't more local or reasonable parallels they can't grab. I'd rather single people at least count some of their blessings and realize that they can aim higher in some ways than their married parent friends can, that it's not all curse.


i think you fail to understand the human mind far too much. Humans are animals of want, not have.
So.....what race of being would you attribute want + goals set = goals attained to?


_________________
The loneliest part of life: it's not just that no one is on your cloud, few can even see your cloud.


Moog
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 25 Feb 2010
Age: 47
Gender: Male
Posts: 17,671
Location: Untied Kingdom

03 Oct 2011, 5:16 pm

MXH wrote:
Moog wrote:
MXH wrote:
did anyone stop to think that maybe being said guy is just not attainable for everyone?


Why should we only post things that are attainable for everyone?

That would basically include, breathing, eating, sleeping etc.

I think the message is basically this; if you can't get a girlfriend, just do something interesting instead.

i know what the message is supposed to be. what im saying is that something interesting isnt always easy to do either.


Seems like something for a separate thread to me.

I'm sorry that you feel that you can't do anything interesting. I remember boredom.


_________________
Not currently a moderator