A question for the girls

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hEllo_Moto
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05 Oct 2011, 2:07 pm

It would make me go distant. Touch for me is essential.

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06 Oct 2011, 11:20 am

chloroform. nuff said.

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06 Oct 2011, 11:41 am

That would earn a one-way ticket to the "friend-zone" from me - such a person would be fundamentally incompatible romantically-speaking.

BTW I'm a guy, but still insist on answering the question anyway - does that make me a "Bad Boy" ladies?

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06 Oct 2011, 1:23 pm

I don't see the point in a relationship with a lack of touch. It just defeats the point, doesn't it?

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06 Oct 2011, 2:10 pm

smudge wrote:

I don't see the point in a relationship with a lack of touch. It just defeats the point, doesn't it?

Exactly. It's almost like having a long-term relationship at home...

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06 Oct 2011, 4:38 pm

AnonymousPasserBy wrote:

Imagine you have a crush on someone. He asks you out, so of course you accept. Everything seems to become a perfect love story on the first few dates but then suddenly he tells you he doesn't want to be touched. No holding hands, kissing, hugging etc, at least not for the first few months and possibly never.

How would you react? Remember, you have a crush on this guy.

I have no idea. I have a hard time imagining what I do in a situation I have never been in before. maybe I would still keep seeing him and hope he will eventually let me touch him but it won't be all the time. Or hope he will touch me when I want it (no I don't mean sex).

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06 Oct 2011, 4:41 pm

I'd apply an anesthetic :]

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07 Oct 2011, 2:26 am

smudge wrote:

I don't see the point in a relationship with a lack of touch. It just defeats the point, doesn't it?

If the "point" is physical contact, sure.

But apparently, not all people are like that.

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