girlfriend complains about breast size -.-

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It has been suggested to me here before to wear lifting boots to look taller, and it was said more than once.

No one said this a terrible advice back then.

that is TERRIBLE advice (didn't see it at the time). walk proud and feel good about your height instead (maybe you do already). short men can be sexy too!! ! a man i work with is about 5'2" or 5'3" and he often has women flirting with him. but i do think it can be harder for shorter men overall. i'm not gonna lie as i think a lot of women do prefer taller men (just like i think a lot of men do prefer larger breasts, though i may be wrong on both counts).

It has been suggested also in other threads, they were not directed to me, but it was some subject about height, they took Tom Cruise as example of using them.

I realized how terrible this advice was, and i was surprised how it was said so naturally, like I am supposed to buy it. It was like telling me "your height is a shame, hide it".

Sexy or not to most, my height is a part of me.

Ok I should shut up now about this before someone pops up and accusing me of being Napoleonatic complicated.

You want to keep her spirits up, which is a very good start.

Make sure she knows that they really really really turn you on. Say its different to the fast food reaction of looking at big breasts, that the more you look and think about hers - the more you get excited in a much deeper way because its HER that does it for you - emotionally, physically, spiritually and intellectually.

Getting excited by body parts because the person does it for you in those four ways, is a billion billion times better. They could be tiny.

It will pay dividends for you too, if there is a virtuous feedback that happens. If she feels more confident, she will shut up and she will be more into you.

Ask her is she cares that your (head/hand/foot/etc.) is bigger, smaller than average?

All the guys I've dated were a little bit shorter than me. Plus two out of three were quite successful in picking up. I'm 5'7, so not hugely tall. I don't think I have a physical type (must be a coincidence), but maybe I have some subconscious thing... Anyway, the point I was trying to make is that I don't think height's as big a deal as it's made out to be in mainstream culture.

You said WHAT to her?

Why is she still with you?

No forget that. Why are you still with her if you don't find her attractive enough?

Why are you posting this here, instead of talking to her about it and patching things up?