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20 Oct 2011, 5:26 am

We don't live together so he's never really had to cook for me or take the trash out. His house looks nice when I visit so I guess he cleans it.

And mom wants to be a grandmother but she's not putting a timer on me. So I'm going based on the timer until menopause. Having a child in my 30s would be ideal, granted if I am already married and things are going well financially and everything.

I would want to trust him because he makes me happy and trusting him is a form of respect, I gather. :)

I have no idea about the Honduras thing. Our relationship hit it's three month anniversary yesterday so it hasn't really crashed and burned and doesn't look like it's going to anytime soon. :)



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23 Oct 2011, 12:07 am

1.) dont cheat, ever.
2.) dont lie, ever.

those 2 things, alone, will get you far.

also, if theres ever a problem, work it out! dont just keep it bottled up and let it eat away your relationship.

oh, and if he hits you like your one durdle boyfriend did, DUMP HIM. DONT BE WITH ABUSIVE PEOPLE it only hurts you more. its not worth it at all.

he sounds like a really nice guy btw, good luck to you two. :D



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23 Oct 2011, 4:24 pm

tronist wrote:
1.) dont cheat, ever.
2.) dont lie, ever.

those 2 things, alone, will get you far.

also, if theres ever a problem, work it out! dont just keep it bottled up and let it eat away your relationship.

oh, and if he hits you like your one durdle boyfriend did, DUMP HIM. DONT BE WITH ABUSIVE PEOPLE it only hurts you more. its not worth it at all.

he sounds like a really nice guy btw, good luck to you two. :D


Yeah. I'm doing my best. There was a little drama last night but we're trying to work it out. It's really nothing to risk the relationship for and he says I'm not at fault at all. It was just him being cranky. I still feel bad about it though. Oh well. >.<

We decided that next weekend, we're just going to rest at home and see each other the following weekend. We're exhausted from our jobs and haven't had a chance to rest in the past couple weeks too much, which probably lead to what happened last night.



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23 Oct 2011, 6:58 pm

Erisad wrote:
We don't live together so he's never really had to cook for me or take the trash out. His house looks nice when I visit so I guess he cleans it.

And mom wants to be a grandmother but she's not putting a timer on me. So I'm going based on the timer until menopause. Having a child in my 30s would be ideal, granted if I am already married and things are going well financially and everything.

I would want to trust him because he makes me happy and trusting him is a form of respect, I gather. :)

I have no idea about the Honduras thing. Our relationship hit it's three month anniversary yesterday so it hasn't really crashed and burned and doesn't look like it's going to anytime soon. :)


It was a "joke' flowers are also sprayed with toxic chemicals :wink:



I'd be more chuffed by some one cooking me a meal than buying mass produced consumer junk on their way home from work , buy me a chili bush instead that would be more productive and long lasting.


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23 Oct 2011, 7:03 pm

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Erisad wrote:
We don't live together so he's never really had to cook for me or take the trash out. His house looks nice when I visit so I guess he cleans it.

And mom wants to be a grandmother but she's not putting a timer on me. So I'm going based on the timer until menopause. Having a child in my 30s would be ideal, granted if I am already married and things are going well financially and everything.

I would want to trust him because he makes me happy and trusting him is a form of respect, I gather. :)

I have no idea about the Honduras thing. Our relationship hit it's three month anniversary yesterday so it hasn't really crashed and burned and doesn't look like it's going to anytime soon. :)


It was a "joke' flowers are also sprayed with toxic chemicals :wink:



I'd be more chuffed by some one cooking me a meal than buying mass produced consumer junk on their way home from work , buy me a chili bush instead that would be more productive and long lasting.


Well...he helps me cook sometimes. I really appreciate our conversations and stuff. He does care about me. He gave me Harley Quinn comic book for my birthday. We're thinking of going to Disney World next summer so I'm saving some money. :)



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23 Oct 2011, 7:32 pm

I just don't get the flower thing seriously :shrug:

The comic book sounds all right I supppose :wink:


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23 Oct 2011, 10:51 pm

aussiebloke wrote:
I just don't get the flower thing seriously :shrug:


Add to that diamonds, rings, gold, jewelry, and pretty much every other expensive token of affection.



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24 Oct 2011, 1:50 am

Erisad wrote:
tronist wrote:
1.) dont cheat, ever.
2.) dont lie, ever.

those 2 things, alone, will get you far.

also, if theres ever a problem, work it out! dont just keep it bottled up and let it eat away your relationship.

oh, and if he hits you like your one durdle boyfriend did, DUMP HIM. DONT BE WITH ABUSIVE PEOPLE it only hurts you more. its not worth it at all.

he sounds like a really nice guy btw, good luck to you two. :D


Yeah. I'm doing my best. There was a little drama last night but we're trying to work it out. It's really nothing to risk the relationship for and he says I'm not at fault at all. It was just him being cranky. I still feel bad about it though. Oh well. >.<

We decided that next weekend, we're just going to rest at home and see each other the following weekend. We're exhausted from our jobs and haven't had a chance to rest in the past couple weeks too much, which probably lead to what happened last night.

could you two rest together? just lounge around and cuddle :D thats always good for a relationship, and i really like it, maybe you both would too.

just a suggestion :P



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24 Oct 2011, 6:30 am

tronist wrote:
Erisad wrote:
tronist wrote:
1.) dont cheat, ever.
2.) dont lie, ever.

those 2 things, alone, will get you far.

also, if theres ever a problem, work it out! dont just keep it bottled up and let it eat away your relationship.

oh, and if he hits you like your one durdle boyfriend did, DUMP HIM. DONT BE WITH ABUSIVE PEOPLE it only hurts you more. its not worth it at all.

he sounds like a really nice guy btw, good luck to you two. :D


Yeah. I'm doing my best. There was a little drama last night but we're trying to work it out. It's really nothing to risk the relationship for and he says I'm not at fault at all. It was just him being cranky. I still feel bad about it though. Oh well. >.<

We decided that next weekend, we're just going to rest at home and see each other the following weekend. We're exhausted from our jobs and haven't had a chance to rest in the past couple weeks too much, which probably lead to what happened last night.

could you two rest together? just lounge around and cuddle :D thats always good for a relationship, and i really like it, maybe you both would too.

just a suggestion :P


Yeah but we would have to travel in order to do that, which is the opposite of resting. We'll probably just text each other during that time or chat on the phone. :)

As a side note, a gift doesn't have to be expensive to be a good present. As long as I like it, I don't care how much you spent. I would actually feel better that it was cheaper. I feel bad when people spend lots of money on me. >.<