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Okay... I'm dying of curiosity. What line did you give her when asking her out?

All this proves is that he doesn't have a 100 per cent success rate. Who does? Rich rock stars? Asking a girl you like the looks of that you encounter at random will have a much lower success rate than someone from school that you know a little bit.

Someone you meet at random would be more likely to say yes to just getting some coffee (or whatever beverage you prefer) so that you can chat enough to get to know each other. Then she will be much more likely to agree to a more formal date.

Well it was the day of the week were i go to town to get a pizza... ive done it for months now... and i felt like i might want some company for once... i have a friend that comes sometimes but he has a girlfriend of his own who goes with him... so i kinda feel like the third wheel if they do come and lonely if they dont

ANYWAY so what i asked was how about i pick you up and we go get cheap tuesday pizza tonight ... we were having a pretty goodish conversation before i asked... so i thought she would say yes... and yeah she said no... so i went anyway because i like pizza

But good news guys i asked another girl if she would like to meet up some time... and she said yes... but her work roster conflicts with mine... she said she will be sure to make time for it hopefully she actually does... that would be sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet

Awesome!

The hopes and dreams of autistic men everywhere go with you, my son: make us proud!

I will fulfull my goal... ill do it for myself... and ill be doing it for you guys

Dont you guys worry i got this...

Dingo7, she was missing out. That was a pretty good line. Good for you on the new girl. I hope by now you've seen more of her.

If a general single 'rich rock star' had a 100% success rate, they'd be disappointed in their broken record if they asked me. Money and talent doesn't buy everyone. They'd be gone most of the time, their chance of cheating I would only assume would be far greater. Ego is more likely to grow, ick. Not to mention money does something to people. People are always trying to bum it off the rich so naturally they become less trustful, alienate themselves. It's the reason so many turn to drugs. Which is another turn off. Don't get me wrong... a lot of rock stars are sexy as hell... it just takes more than that, for me at least.

I'm new around here but I remember your posts. You sound like a really great guy, fun and all. So I don't get it. Girls are supposed to like guys like you. Plus, if that's your picture, you are good looking, so I don't get it.

Well, like all matters in life, it all depends on a girl. Doesn't mean other girls wouldn't be interested in you.

But by all means, I think it's great that you approached. It sucks that she said no, but it's better to try than to never make any steps towards the things you like.

its like you read my mind

Trying too hard, perhaps? Some things can't be forced.

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I dont even bother trying anymore, im not even noticed. Ive tried it all in the past and couldnt even make friends let alone something more.

I have to say that you guys who do try are pretty damn brave in my book though.

I'm good enough at making friends... seem even better a loosing them, unfortunately. Live and learn I guess.

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like i said, ive gone through enough to know theres no pint in me trying anymore.

^ You're only 20. I hardly knew who I was when I was twenty let alone what I wanted in a mate.

Guys, please don't get me wrong, but I do think nobody should feel like they're missing something big... And they're in their teens or early 20s. I mean, nobody should ever feel like they're missing something or to pressure themselves about anything... But if you're 18, or 19, or 20... You're young! Too young to start "whining" about this stuff.

Now, don't get me wrong, I know that rejection hurts. It hurts a lot, especially in your age. (Because when you're older, people focus a bit less on your personal life and they focus a little less on whether you've ever had your first kiss/girl/sex), so I understand you're under pressure here.

But take this "old" girl's word on it: don't pressure yourself.