Sweetleaf
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12 Nov 2011, 12:28 am
Sextaesada wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
SoftlyStepping wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
Oh what do you know, this girl in question has a boyfriend and has no intrest in him....
Awesome. Glad that's clarified.
Sweetleaf wrote:
so now the diliema is do I straight up tell him how I feel or just wait it out and try and figure out how he feels about our relationship. I mean I kinda need to know if he wants to try and keep things going or not.........and if I should move on.
Depends on the guy. I'd wait a few weeks to give him the opportunity to start things. Which he likely will, from the sound of it.
It's slightly less preferable for you to bring it up, that's the reason I would wait.
Yeah that is kind of what I was thinking........but yeah after that whole ordeal now I am not exactly sure how I feel anymore. I mean I really like him and all, but I don't know if I am someone he should be involved with. But that's just stuff I have to think about I guess.
No need to be so negative towards yourself. I would stop talking to him for awhile, or at least initiating conversation. But I wouldn't want to date someone if they are just going to leave as soon as they see someone that looks better, that's not cool.
sorry I have no idea what I am talking about, carry on.
Well I kind of feel like I'm a f*ck up, I mean as much as I want to be there for him and all, its hard for me to express it. I mean I have kind of accepted how I feel and i think I will die before things get better. I just don't want to dissapoint him....or anyone else, but I feel like that is the direction I am going.
12 Nov 2011, 3:37 am
Sweetleaf wrote:
Sextaesada wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
SoftlyStepping wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
Oh what do you know, this girl in question has a boyfriend and has no intrest in him....
Awesome. Glad that's clarified.
Sweetleaf wrote:
so now the diliema is do I straight up tell him how I feel or just wait it out and try and figure out how he feels about our relationship. I mean I kinda need to know if he wants to try and keep things going or not.........and if I should move on.
Depends on the guy. I'd wait a few weeks to give him the opportunity to start things. Which he likely will, from the sound of it.
It's slightly less preferable for you to bring it up, that's the reason I would wait.
Yeah that is kind of what I was thinking........but yeah after that whole ordeal now I am not exactly sure how I feel anymore. I mean I really like him and all, but I don't know if I am someone he should be involved with. But that's just stuff I have to think about I guess.
No need to be so negative towards yourself. I would stop talking to him for awhile, or at least initiating conversation. But I wouldn't want to date someone if they are just going to leave as soon as they see someone that looks better, that's not cool.
sorry I have no idea what I am talking about, carry on.
Well I kind of feel like I'm a f*ck up, I mean as much as I want to be there for him and all, its hard for me to express it. I mean I have kind of accepted how I feel and i think I will die before things get better. I just don't want to dissapoint him....or anyone else, but I feel like that is the direction I am going.
Oh, I don't want to disappoint anyone either, I can't feel comfortable talking to anyone anymore. that last part made me sound strange, I was wondered what you accepted.
