05 Dec 2011, 7:12 pm
I know how you feel and I hope you are finding better ways to cope during this time 
Stay strong and keep your head high, things will surely work out for the best no matter how bad it seems.
05 Dec 2011, 8:25 pm
That sucks. I hope you both can learn from this and become stronger from it. 
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05 Dec 2011, 9:33 pm
Erisad wrote:
That sucks. I hope you both can learn from this and become stronger from it.
I defiantly have. I had some concerns before about getting into a relationship again because I had lots of problems when I was in a relationship with my 1st girlfriend & I had a breakdown after things fell apart so I was a little worried that I might go that route again. I had some of those same issues but I handled things a lot better this time; for example taking Buspar for anxiety instead of trying to control her hoping to prevent my panic attacks. I'm aLOT more confident that I won't go that crazy route again; I would of killed myself if things ended with Megz the way they did with Emily. Having Megz in my life helped me feel better about some things, pulled me out of the final ending stages of the depression I had & I started slowly making some much needed changes in my life. Megz helped me find my sanity & I'm more functional now than I ever was in my life. I think Megz learned a lot about herself in the process to & realized she doesn't want a relationship; & I respect that even thou I may not fully understand everything. I really do care about her a lot & would help her in a heartbeat if she asked me for anything & I could. But anyways... I'm not going to dwell on things too much because that could make me depressed like the 1st time so I'm going to take what I've learned & move on.
05 Dec 2011, 9:56 pm
nick007 wrote:
Erisad wrote:
That sucks. I hope you both can learn from this and become stronger from it.
I defiantly have. I had some concerns before about getting into a relationship again because I had lots of problems when I was in a relationship with my 1st girlfriend & I had a breakdown after things fell apart so I was a little worried that I might go that route again. I had some of those same issues but I handled things a lot better this time; for example taking Buspar for anxiety instead of trying to control her hoping to prevent my panic attacks. I'm aLOT more confident that I won't go that crazy route again; I would of killed myself if things ended with Megz the way they did with Emily. Having Megz in my life helped me feel better about some things, pulled me out of the final ending stages of the depression I had & I started slowly making some much needed changes in my life. Megz helped me find my sanity & I'm more functional now than I ever was in my life. I think Megz learned a lot about herself in the process to & realized she doesn't want a relationship; & I respect that even thou I may not fully understand everything. I really do care about her a lot & would help her in a heartbeat if she asked me for anything & I could. But anyways... I'm not going to dwell on things too much because that could make me depressed like the 1st time so I'm going to take what I've learned & move on.
That's great! Hooray for self reflection and improvement. ^.^
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05 Dec 2011, 11:25 pm
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07 Dec 2011, 6:46 am
I'm really sorry. You seemed so happy.
I hope you will both be ok as a result of this. But I am really sad to hear it.
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07 Dec 2011, 9:35 am
hale_bopp wrote:
I'm really sorry. You seemed so happy.
I hope you will both be ok as a result of this. But I am really sad to hear it.
I hope you will both be ok as a result of this. But I am really sad to hear it.
I was happy & I thought she was. She learned some things about herself & went through some changes. I tried my best to be supportive but there were some incompatibilities & I would of done most all the compromising because I loved her. I think she may of been only infatuated & the infatuation wore off. I may make another post here about wanting a relationship but that won't be till the new year because I'm going to wait a bit before actively trying to find someone so I can be sure I have things sorted out thou I feel like I do now so I would be interested if someone came along
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07 Dec 2011, 10:02 am
AsteroidNap wrote:
sorry to hear this Nick and Megz.
As sad as this is, these events makes us stronger and wiser.
As sad as this is, these events makes us stronger and wiser.
"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger"
(well... except of rape, child abuse, herpes...etc)
PS: disregard the saying, it's BS.
07 Dec 2011, 11:38 am
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