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Ah. I'm like that too, sometimes. Only, if I have nothing to say, I don't bother posting.

That's just me.

I have a fairly common problem for people with AS.

Call her on her behavior. Tell her you find it morally repugnant and abusive. Tell her what you really think. If nothing else, even in her misguided worldview, she'll be forced to respect you for being a decent person.

How did werbert give you a customised title!?

I'm intrigued...

Call her? do you mean on the phone or in real life?

How do you know Werbert gave you that customized username?

Whichever, the phone is real life, isn't it?

Oh! I didn't realize it served the same purpose!

Gerrit:

That, my Dutch friend, is what women are like in general. They're constantly changing their minds as their hormone levels fluctuate. It's normal behaviour and I'm used to it. I've put up with countless tens of girls that are manipulative, pretend to like you one minute and go with some other guy the next, and so on.

In my experience, its not normal.

It depends on the kind of female you are dating/attracted to.As long as we are going to "generalise"....It has been my experience that guys tend to let physical attraction out weigh
their ability to make an intelligent decision about an individuals character.If they would stop being attracted to shallow,stupid,manipulative females just be cause of their hair color or bust size they might have less painful experiences.

I've always been attracted to the "rare" women or those that I feel something different with, though in the past this has led me to dating schitzophrenics and WAY TOO MANY narcissists, I believe now if I simply rely on myself and be myself I will meet someone who can handle me, and who I can handle without losing the plot..

Obviously I'll still lose it, but if someone can understand what I need in that moment, I would give them anything...


Then again, we shall see.

Wtf is wrong with NT females?? I've read and heard quite alot of sad stories from Aspies males interactions with them. They seem to detect our weaknesses and social fragility and pounce on it. It's sickening. B*tches.

>>Is there a reason you always chime in with the most inane, empty comments Jason?<<

Reminds me of what you write in a card for someone you don't care about or haven't seen in awhile. But the care is there and that is all that should matter.

Being a young and unfortunate male, I know a thing or two about "getting over it".

- The first step to beating infatuations is recognising that it will NEVER work. Dash those dreams, and don't let em resurface.
- The second step is finding a new to break your heart. I suppose one day you'll find someone, but personally, I've just hit strike 3.

If it's any consolation at all, she would of pleasured herself thinking about you at some point. From what I've read, 18 year old females average 0.8 times a day. I guess that belongs in the mature section, but I think you'll find it a comforting thought. She's not better than you. She's just enjoying the AS male:female ratio.

I'm attracted to a wide range of girls though.

even better!

That means you have more choices

I've never met an AS female, but I have met plenty of loons and nutty women that drive me crazy (in a good way)

I've been through so many emotional roller coasters that my desires have changed in the past few months, yes I still crave sex, but what I'm looking for in a partner is simply a place to relax, a place to get away from me and my obsessions, every partner I've had became my prime obsession, and I can't allow that to happen again...

That seems Aspieish in itself...she would talk about her sexual relationship...point that out...something that might have been obvious but better left unspoken for the sake of hurting someone's feelings...and she cuddled with you and obviously considered you a close friend. She may have been a b**** and in that case, dude, find somebody else and ditch the friendship unless she can seriously make up for it.