I got rejected and slapped hard in the middle of the hall.

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knew it before opening the thread. grats

Can I come to your wedding???

very, very cool.

I was gonna suggest you slap her back but I see nothing negative in this story o.o

go Boo!

Congrats! How did it go?

are you dead boo?

Still waiting on the slap.

i hate that word

he said he's coming on here less because he doesn't love us anymore anyway. so we may have an anxious wait ahead of us

Nope I am alive and kicking lol.

Nothing ....has happened because it was postponed till further notice :-/

Weird.

I wasn't replying because I didn't want to have negative thoughts on this nor in the right mood to reply anyways.

no news is good news bews

Rejection is a natural part of life. There is nothing you can do about it and it happens to everyone. Some girls will accept you, others will not.

I think I have been rejected ~100 times or something but it doesn't really stop me from trying. The vast majority of men were rejected sometimes in their life, even the wealthiest, best-looking and highest-status men.

But the secret to success with women that many men don't want you to know is that men who are rejected the most, are also the most successful with women because they are not afraid to be rejected because they know they have nothing to lose.

Tom, you've obviously just read the title lol.

Ok, well....here's the issue.

The girl in question turned out to be a single mother (with 2 kids!) as she told me the last Sunday hence her bad mood on Sat.

Didn't close any door but i sound more like "I have to think about this...".

I knew she was older than me but she lives with her parents and doesn't wear any rings so I 'v assumed she is just single.


The idea of jumping from zero-experience to a relationship with a 32-years woman, being a Papa for two huge kids (11 and 6!!) and dealing with jealous ex-husband sound like a suicide mission to me, I am not ready for this, I didn't acquired the relationship-maturity for this yet. :-/ It's like a new driver going straight to a F1 car!!

And I doubt she wants something casual at this stage (something I wouldn't mind for once at least) and not sure how liberal she is yet.

So I've decided to not show interest anymore during the week, maybe things would die out alone.
That actually backfired before yesterday, I was on a machine and some buddy was talking to me, I saw her in the corner of my eye, she was even waving while walking to the elliptical trainer machine to other side, but I've pretended I didn't see her and was being too preoccupied to even notice.

After like seconds my phone rang, it was her telling me she's on the trainer machine over there! :-/ (And yet they say PUA techniques don't work, bah! I've unintentionally triggered the most typical one)

So I had no choice but to come to her and salute her.

She later invited me for an outing on the next Saturday. :-/

Go for it.

If you have no experience (and especially if you are lonely) jump in there and make it happen.

If you aren't father material she will dump you in a few months. You won't have to figure out how to get out. Or maybe she'll keep you until someone better comes along.

Meanwhile have fun together and build experience.