Pleas help! What is going on???????

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The best thing you can do is disregard your feelings for him and start to see other people, don't let him dictate the dynamics of your dating life. He seems like an indecisive person that can't make up his mind, people like that don't have a strong sense of loyalty and tend to act on impulse or on a whim, he has clearly broken your trust and letting him in again would only lead to further hurt.

He wants the milk without buying the cow because he knows the milk is free, he knows he can be intimate with you and still date other people without making any commitment or devotion towards you.

Thank you Wolfheart and justalouise. Good advice. Yes, he is very indecisive. We have been going out for 7 months. The first week he wanted to go out, the second week wanted to be friends with the possibility of more. Then he began holding hands and hugging like that so I thought it was headed in that direction. Then now all of a sudden never mind I don't want to date you. I had never made the connection with that and loyalty before but I think you are right. It is too bad!! !

Don't worry, you'll find someone that truly loves you and doesn't change their mind every five minutes, you don't deserve to be messed around when you have put your heart and trust on the line, he clearly isn't taking your feelings seriously.

Thank you Wolfheart!

To be honest, I think a normal friendship without the extras will work better.
Also, give it a few years and he'll want it to restart as he'll not have as much luck and by then you will not fall through the trap twice.
It's a shame... normally we'd be happy to spend time with anyone... others just want the greener grass.

Yes!