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31 Mar 2012, 7:39 am

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^ it's ok to go mainstream in that matter, the normal walking is healthier anyways.


I know. But I had to stop a lot of things because "it makes you weird, people don't like weirdos."



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31 Mar 2012, 8:01 am

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31 Mar 2012, 8:06 am

I am not teasing here, just spitting out the ugly truth.



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31 Mar 2012, 8:08 am

Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ it's ok to go mainstream in that matter, the normal walking is healthier anyways.


I know. But I had to stop a lot of things because "it makes you weird, people don't like weirdos."


But it was for the better, don't you think so? Do you think you would have a bf if you didn't stop those things?

Now you look happier, you're in relationship, you're having sex and we no longer seeing you whining and crying like back in the days.

So it was worth it.

It's ok to change to be less weirdos if it pays off.



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31 Mar 2012, 8:08 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I am not teasing here, just spitting out the ugly truth.


make your truth cover up a little more



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31 Mar 2012, 8:13 am

MXH wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
I am not teasing here, just spitting out the ugly truth.


make your truth cover up a little more


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31 Mar 2012, 9:39 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ it's ok to go mainstream in that matter, the normal walking is healthier anyways.


I know. But I had to stop a lot of things because "it makes you weird, people don't like weirdos."


But it was for the better, don't you think so? Do you think you would have a bf if you didn't stop those things?

Now you look happier, you're in relationship, you're having sex and we no longer seeing you whining and crying like back in the days.

So it was worth it.

It's ok to change to be less weirdos if it pays off.


I still cry, just not about dating stuff. Like how I can't find a job and when I do, I get fired in less than 6 months because the boss didn't feel like training us properly and I cracked under pressure. :/



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31 Mar 2012, 10:53 am

It doesn't turn me off sometimes it turns me on. I tiptoe all the time.


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31 Mar 2012, 2:35 pm

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It doesn't turn me off sometimes it turns me on. I tiptoe all the time.

Must be a foot fetish!

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31 Mar 2012, 2:38 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ it's ok to go mainstream in that matter, the normal walking is healthier anyways.


I know. But I had to stop a lot of things because "it makes you weird, people don't like weirdos."


But it was for the better, don't you think so? Do you think you would have a bf if you didn't stop those things?

Now you look happier, you're in relationship, you're having sex and we no longer seeing you whining and crying like back in the days.

So it was worth it.

It's ok to change to be less weirdos if it pays off.


lawl I'm assuming you're still being stupid funny right?


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31 Mar 2012, 2:45 pm

Trigas wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ it's ok to go mainstream in that matter, the normal walking is healthier anyways.


I know. But I had to stop a lot of things because "it makes you weird, people don't like weirdos."


But it was for the better, don't you think so? Do you think you would have a bf if you didn't stop those things?

Now you look happier, you're in relationship, you're having sex and we no longer seeing you whining and crying like back in the days.

So it was worth it.

It's ok to change to be less weirdos if it pays off.


lawl I'm assuming you're still being stupid funny right?


I am against this ideal belief in WP that "we should remain weirdos and unique no matter what" - sometimes this is the main obstacle what prevent them to obtain what they want in life.

So no, it's not 'no matter what'.



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31 Mar 2012, 2:58 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Trigas wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ it's ok to go mainstream in that matter, the normal walking is healthier anyways.


I know. But I had to stop a lot of things because "it makes you weird, people don't like weirdos."


But it was for the better, don't you think so? Do you think you would have a bf if you didn't stop those things?

Now you look happier, you're in relationship, you're having sex and we no longer seeing you whining and crying like back in the days.

So it was worth it.

It's ok to change to be less weirdos if it pays off.


lawl I'm assuming you're still being stupid funny right?


I am against this ideal belief in WP that "we should remain weirdos and unique no matter what" - sometimes this is the main obstacle what prevent them to obtain what they want in life.

So no, it's not 'no matter what'.


To each is own, though I walk on my tip toes as well, always probably will, and it hasn't had any effect on my dating life. That seems a bit trivial does it not?


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31 Mar 2012, 3:00 pm

Trigas wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Trigas wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Erisad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ it's ok to go mainstream in that matter, the normal walking is healthier anyways.


I know. But I had to stop a lot of things because "it makes you weird, people don't like weirdos."


But it was for the better, don't you think so? Do you think you would have a bf if you didn't stop those things?

Now you look happier, you're in relationship, you're having sex and we no longer seeing you whining and crying like back in the days.

So it was worth it.

It's ok to change to be less weirdos if it pays off.


lawl I'm assuming you're still being stupid funny right?


I am against this ideal belief in WP that "we should remain weirdos and unique no matter what" - sometimes this is the main obstacle what prevent them to obtain what they want in life.

So no, it's not 'no matter what'.


To each is own, though I walk on my tip toes as well, always probably will, and it hasn't had any effect on my dating life. That seems a bit trivial does it not?


That doesn't mean it would affect the others' chances. Maybe your tiptoe walking isn't as obvious or frequent as others.



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31 Mar 2012, 3:02 pm

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That doesn't mean it would affect the others' chances. Maybe your tiptoe walking isn't as obvious or frequent as others.

Like to the point where women have made jokes about me being a ballerina dancer? :lol:
It still doesn't seem that like big of a deal-breaker. Hell in my opinion it shouldn't be a deal-breaker.
If it is to some individuals, then most definitely that's a red flag not to pursue that person.


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31 Mar 2012, 3:16 pm

Trigas wrote:
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That doesn't mean it would affect the others' chances. Maybe your tiptoe walking isn't as obvious or frequent as others.

Like to the point where women have made jokes about me being a ballerina dancer? :lol:
It still doesn't seem that like big of a deal-breaker. Hell in my opinion it shouldn't be a deal-breaker.
If it is to some individuals, then most definitely that's a red flag not to pursue that person.


Maybe you are too attractive for this to be a deal-breaker to anyone, I dunno.

But the fact that Quarky started this thread, can only means she's struggling in that area, so she's giving a thought what wrong she might be doing.

Let her try. If you go to the WP and read Kirsten's story, you can see that change doesn't always make you less happy.



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31 Mar 2012, 3:23 pm

and insulting me doesn't make you more right btw.