This ball of crap I call life

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Some females on here might be in your area though. From my observations of this site, there are far more Americans on here than any other nationality so there's more chance of a female aspie living near you. I know America's a big place though lol You did totally the right thing with the girl - showed her you won't be manipulated by her and of course it just makes her try even harder! You obviously realise that the moment you do relent and play her game (kiss her, hug her etc), she'll lose interest? That's how these types of people operate - the thrill is toatally in the chase; they like the challenge. These types, if very attractive, can flatter your ego but won't give emotional satisfaction - look for someone genuine and let her be just the occasional ego boost on the side. Don't make her your main focus as it's doomed to give you a lot of heartache in my opinion!

Do you have Aspie support groups in your area?

I started my own support group last year and it's proving to be a much needed thing - I regularly get enquiries and a steady number of attendees - sometimes you have to set these things up yourself

That explains why people have put asburgers instead of aspergers.

Nessa has great advice and explained it way better then I ever could!

But yeah, I hate the hierarchy thing going on...and you get this with friends too!

Most of mine won't talk to me any more as they found someone more "interesting" but they are all pretty low on the hierarchy as well due to their own problems and obnoxiousness.

I find the whole thing sad really.

And yeah dude! You are doing the right thing ignoring her advances, although she should just give up and admit you have found her game out and move on to the next guy who's foolish enough to do it...