Real true love doesn't exist

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01 Apr 2012, 7:54 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

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I agree true love doesn't exist, there's only approximations.

What do you consider true love, and what's an approximation?

I'd like to know what that is to? and Vigilians is so right on :wink:

I know what the word means, I want bizboy1 to describe an approximation of true love.

Oh how silly of me I don't know what the word means :lol:

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01 Apr 2012, 7:55 pm

dictionary.com is your friend, dude.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/ ... mation?s=t

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01 Apr 2012, 8:31 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

dictionary.com is your friend, dude.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/ ... mation?s=t

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01 Apr 2012, 9:16 pm

I agreed that true love does not exist. Have a look at your country census information. You can see marriage is declining, children becomes lesser especially in those developed nations......technological conflict. Booze and drugs issues raises.

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01 Apr 2012, 9:19 pm

Don't quite follow your logic?

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01 Apr 2012, 9:36 pm

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As a single mother with an alcohol addiction, I find your assertion that my kids are less important quite insulting.

Also, divorce statistics are misleading. Especially if you're comparing them to earlier decades when divorce was still socially unacceptable which forced many to stay in unhappy/abusive marriages.

It's very illogical to assert true love does not exist because half of marriages end in divorce. What of the other half? Very arrogant of you to declare their love untrue.

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01 Apr 2012, 9:46 pm

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I bet your a good mother Tea and yes that was insulting to you and to my brother who is a former alcoholic and drug abuser not sure what divorance and that has to do with each other my granmother is still married to her alcoholic husband and they been married since the end of the vietnam war.

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01 Apr 2012, 10:10 pm

I think love is like peace and happiness. They do exist, but they take a lot of work to achieve and maintain, and can be disrupted easily.

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01 Apr 2012, 10:35 pm

I have no intentions to abuse and insult someone about their raging drunken alcoholic in relationships in conjunction to our current damaged society!

Listen, what I refer to how those young adults where I go to uni and that age between 17 to 25 are seem focusing on drinking nights, shagging and all of that. Still quite few people are in serious relationships, but what limits me is to find a 'proper' relationship and eventually true love seems pretty stuffed up. Since my AS has pissed off lot of people for no certain reason, it hurts my lifestyle so much.

Does people who travel around the world at young age can be coincident to this problem? Well Im finishing uni thank god at end of this end!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !................so I am planning to do US working holiday with group of unknown people which I never met before to ski fields and all of that kind of stuff. I fear the delay of understanding of me as a 'life after university' will be exactly a same of what I experienced through during my 4 years of uni. I'm not surprised that my after life of uni is going down and down and down hill long way down towards Denver from Aspen etc.

So what you think?

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02 Apr 2012, 12:37 am

I'm 29 and have yet to find the right relationship. You won't ever catch me stating true love doesn't exist just because I haven't found it for myself. It's purely emotion driven logic, and has no basis in reality.

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02 Apr 2012, 1:05 am

Just because many people don't understand what true love is, and pursue the wrong thing, does not mean it does not exist. I know enough solid couples to believe. I've watched enough friends bury their soul mates to believe. I've lived in my own marriage long enough to believe.

Just because it doesn't look like a fantasy or a fairy tale doesn't mean it isn't real.

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02 Apr 2012, 1:19 am

Chipshorter wrote:

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Because of f**** up society is all about sheep shaggers and drinking alcohol. Thats what we need to blame because the entire world is now unequal and one side is being dominate is alcohol while other side which is me that is least dominant........

Stop making stupid fun judgements of me! That is racist and discrimination. One more slight BS against me and my conditions (that I never intend to use it) I will call federal police and UN to track you down!

Excuse me, I do think your being hypercritical about racism and discrimination when you just made an xenophobic insult about a Celtic nation. Am half Welsh, I detest Cymrophobic comments especially from bigoted colonials in the Commonwealth!

What gives you the dam right to judge a group of people on that your claim they do as a paraphilia, please take your abusive slurs about bestiality and zoophilia & stick them where the sun don't shine!! !

Did you actually pick up the thing about sheep shaggers as insulting a Celtic nation? Is it that well known of a joke?

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02 Apr 2012, 2:07 am

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:

dictionary.com is your friend, dude.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/ ... mation?s=t

Grammar police alert! :wink:

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02 Apr 2012, 7:27 pm

Romantic love? Brotherly love? What kind of "love" are we talking about here?
Ah, the "Real" kind. It exists! However, in the context of romance, it is a transient thing. Which is ONE reason for our high divorce rates.
I have felt it once, & alcohol was definitely..
NOT INVOLVED!

Sincerely,
Matthew

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02 Apr 2012, 8:57 pm

Working at the ski resorts, you'll probably find the environment a lot like Uni, just at a higher altitude and with much more expensive rent.
If you're just out of college, why are you in such a hurry to find "true love"? Average life expectency is 70-odd years. Calm down, you'll get there. You don't have to do it all right this second.
I would also say that true love exists, just maybe not for everyone. Look at Prince Charles and Camilla. Against all odds, and a lovely first wife, they're together forever at last. Although it didn't end so well for Diana.

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02 Apr 2012, 11:09 pm

cozysweater wrote:

Sighs, wonder why everywhere I go around the places always ended up crap? Since I have no such idea what is like in first place! Its makes me feel stupid for not knowing it is right place. Few times I thought I met someone right, then turns out Im always wrong. This put me down too much because its kept happening for no reason. I wasn't negative or anything.

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