Planning my first meetup with the new woman

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Yes but do I ask if I can call her or do I just call? Do I apologize if I texted too much? I don't think I did but maybe I did. I just don't know. It seems like every little thing is a trap, a mine meant to blow up my chances of happiness with another person. Why so many obstacles? Why can't I be allowed to make mistakes without completely ruining my chances?

I just desperately want SOMEONE, and I think it may be her, and I just CAN'T f**k this up or I'm dead. Literally.

I just wrote her and this is what I said,:

"Sorry if I texted too much yesterday. Corresponding with you is so fun! But it can be impersonal too. So if it's alright, may I call you this evening?"

She hasn't written back yet which has me nervous. Maybe there is a reason, or maybe she sees me for the loser I am, and has moved on already.

God I feel sick to my stomach.

Try going for a jog to lose some energy (I remember you saying that you like to do that). Hopefully that will help you relax

Oh my god we're doing lunch.

Today!

Holy cow I didn't screw it up! She actually digs me!

I really recommend meeting some place where you can both sit side by side rather than facing each other. I prefer that for the first few dates and usually try to engineer it that way without the girl realising.

Good luck.

Stay calm. Focus on enjoying her company rather than how you are coming across.

You'll do fine.

Just got back from the meetup. It went well, but I suspect my chances are nil, because who'd want a f*****g loser like me?

Anyways, if you want to read it, I've started a new thread:

My first meetup with a woman I met on OKC