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Metal_Man
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06 May 2012, 12:49 am

UnLoser wrote:
edgewaters wrote:
Zamogurl wrote:
i am 14 turning 15 and he is 16 turning 17


There may be some legal issues here.


No one actually prosecutes people for that kind of crap... do they? 8O


Depends where they live. The laws can vary a great deal from place to place. Given the ages of the two people in question the best thing to do is go really slow. There is a big difference between 15 and 17. Much less so when it is 17 and 19.


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06 May 2012, 1:23 pm

You'll have to put it out there. That's what I had to do. After 9 months of him not getting my hints and not responding to my flirting, I started composing an email to spell it all out for him. I sent it and now he knows. I think for him that was the only way to really let him know how I felt. Although he did mention that it "seemed I had taken an interest in him" but I had taken more than an interest in him, I had fallen madly in love with him.



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07 May 2012, 3:12 am

Omg, seriously, 2 years diffrence can get procecuted? Me thinks those laws are american. See i dont live in america, where i come from if it is 2 years diffrence its fine but for example a diffrence like 18 and 14 isnt seen as correct it still is leagal as long as no sexual acts are involved, (leagal age of to have sex is 16)