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13 May 2012, 11:16 am

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
Yeah, there are lots of chavs here. Patter means Chat. It's like a front that you develop over time that works.


OK, someone needs to start a thread on this, so the L&D forum can help him develop it. I can't imagine it would be helpful for him, but it would be entertaining. :)



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13 May 2012, 11:19 am

Meow.



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13 May 2012, 11:21 am

I'm sure hello I am a typical Aspie listen to me talk about model aircraft works, too.



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13 May 2012, 11:23 am

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Wow, that Quirkyalone website is even more depressing than this one.

I can't imagine choosing to be that way.. I scored an 89 on their little quiz.. but I'm that way by chance.. not choice.

I bolded the most profound and poignant part of this post.


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13 May 2012, 11:23 am

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
I'm sure hello I am a typical Aspie listen to me talk about model aircraft works, too.

You know, I might have to read up on model aircrafts and give that one a try. ;)


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13 May 2012, 11:26 am

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
Meow.


Catty? Nah, more like bored.

Techstep, what are your feelings on fake foreign accents? I for one feel the effectiveness of your patter would be greatly enhanced by one.



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13 May 2012, 11:28 am

It was quite catty.
Now that's taking the piss and you know it.



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13 May 2012, 11:30 am

How do you approach the opposite sex, Blueroses?



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13 May 2012, 11:30 am

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Techstep, what are your feelings on fake foreign accents? I for one feel the effectiveness of your patter would be greatly enhanced by one.

Proficiency in yardie would be hot. I could sound like Sean Paul. :)


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13 May 2012, 11:32 am

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How do you approach the opposite sex, Blueroses?


You're just looking for a fight. Try to have a sense of humor, man.



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13 May 2012, 11:32 am

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
blueroses wrote:
Techstep, what are your feelings on fake foreign accents? I for one feel the effectiveness of your patter would be greatly enhanced by one.

Proficiency in yardie would be hot. I could sound like Sean Paul. :)


:)



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13 May 2012, 11:33 am

No, I'm asking you a very real question.



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13 May 2012, 11:33 am

Oh yeah, speaking of which - blue - you should try faking a good British accent. Combine that with making a good likeness of Emma Watson's autograph you might be able to open some fascinating horizons. :lol:


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13 May 2012, 11:34 am

ZX_SpectrumDisorder wrote:
Meow.


I haven't got one. I really haven't. Perhaps that's why I feel so bloody awkward and scared dealing with strangers on my own.

Also:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E-D5XoNWFSQ[/youtube]



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13 May 2012, 11:36 am

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No, I'm asking you a very real question.


Then my very real answer would be that all of the guys I have dated long-term and I were friends before we started dating. I have never found another approach that worked for me, other than getting to know someone in that manner first and keeping a friendship at the core of the relationship. I realize that approach doesn't work for everyone, but it's the only approach that's ever worked for me personally.



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13 May 2012, 11:39 am

techstepgenr8tion wrote:
Oh yeah, speaking of which - blue - you should try faking a good British accent. Combine that with making a good likeness of Emma Watson's autograph you might be able to open some fascinating horizons. :lol:


Nah, my hair finally started growing back. I don't know that I could bear to hack it all off again. It took so much patience for me to get it back to this point again. :)