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22 May 2012, 4:03 pm

You do that. I'll do something else.

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http://www.aspieaffection.com/7283.htm I made that profile for fun. It would make my day if someone were desperate enough to answer it :lol:


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30 Sep 2012, 3:09 pm

is Aspie Affection the only Online Dating site for those with High-Functioning Autism, Asperger Syndrome? are there any other reliable ones?



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30 Sep 2012, 3:17 pm

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OKC has the most potential. Granted I haven't had any success with it, but that's mainly my fault since I'm too chicken**** to message anybody.
ive had the most success with pof..okcupid sucks.


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30 Sep 2012, 4:22 pm

DanRaccoon wrote:
You do that. I'll do something else.

sometime Later

http://www.aspieaffection.com/7283.htm I made that profile for fun. It would make my day if someone were desperate enough to answer it :lol:


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01 Oct 2012, 3:53 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
crmoore wrote:
OKC has the most potential. Granted I haven't had any success with it, but that's mainly my fault since I'm too chicken**** to message anybody.
ive had the most success with pof..okcupid sucks.


i haven't had any luck on either Plentyoffish or OkCupid



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01 Oct 2012, 4:02 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
crmoore wrote:
OKC has the most potential. Granted I haven't had any success with it, but that's mainly my fault since I'm too chicken**** to message anybody.
ive had the most success with pof..okcupid sucks.


i haven't had any luck on either Plentyoffish or OkCupid
me neither but ive atleast met people from pof.


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01 Oct 2012, 4:13 pm

What about meetups? Does it always have to be about dating and finding your soulmate? Why not meet up under plutonic circumstances and see if you like someone...... Speed dating for aspies....you have 5 minutes to tell someone everything you know about trains lol... sorry for anyone who's into trains.....personally, I love trains.


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03 Oct 2012, 2:58 pm

wtfid2 wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
wtfid2 wrote:
crmoore wrote:
OKC has the most potential. Granted I haven't had any success with it, but that's mainly my fault since I'm too chicken**** to message anybody.
ive had the most success with pof..okcupid sucks.


i haven't had any luck on either Plentyoffish or OkCupid
me neither but ive atleast met people from pof.


i have met people from plentyoffish, as in women but ideally they were not my type



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05 Oct 2012, 3:33 am

Never met anyone on OKCupid yet, but have on POF (at least 5) and one on datehookup. DH also has nice forums, including one for disabled dating. If any of you are on facebook, you can check my page promoting free sites there at http://www.facebook.com/freeBBWdatingsites
There are a few more aspie related sites, but they are NOT free and I won't try them. Also check out http://www.facebook.com/groups/ASPIEDATING/ on facebook



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06 Oct 2012, 8:51 pm

ALguy1957 wrote:
Never met anyone on OKCupid yet, but have on POF (at least 5) and one on datehookup. DH also has nice forums, including one for disabled dating. If any of you are on facebook, you can check my page promoting free sites there at http://www.facebook.com/freeBBWdatingsites
There are a few more aspie related sites, but they are NOT free and I won't try them. Also check out http://www.facebook.com/groups/ASPIEDATING/ on facebook


sucks that the vast majority of dating sites, they charge you for them



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06 Oct 2012, 11:56 pm

WantToHaveALife wrote:
ALguy1957 wrote:
Never met anyone on OKCupid yet, but have on POF (at least 5) and one on datehookup. DH also has nice forums, including one for disabled dating. If any of you are on facebook, you can check my page promoting free sites there at http://www.facebook.com/freeBBWdatingsites
There are a few more aspie related sites, but they are NOT free and I won't try them. Also check out http://www.facebook.com/groups/ASPIEDATING/ on facebook


sucks that the vast majority of dating sites, they charge you for them


That's why I created that FB page! If everyone knew about the free sites, they would quit using the pay sites and greatly increase the number of singles on the free sites! I try to promote my facebook page as much as possible. I even add the site link to a lot of images I use and keep posting them.



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07 Oct 2012, 5:07 pm

I had a lot of success on OKC in terms of getting dates-
half of them went really well, the other half were pretty much disastrous.

Someone I met there is actually moving in with me this weekend (we're making it official in December) though, so I can't complain. :wink:


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08 Oct 2012, 10:55 am

ALguy1957 wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
ALguy1957 wrote:
Never met anyone on OKCupid yet, but have on POF (at least 5) and one on datehookup. DH also has nice forums, including one for disabled dating. If any of you are on facebook, you can check my page promoting free sites there at http://www.facebook.com/freeBBWdatingsites
There are a few more aspie related sites, but they are NOT free and I won't try them. Also check out http://www.facebook.com/groups/ASPIEDATING/ on facebook


sucks that the vast majority of dating sites, they charge you for them


That's why I created that FB page! If everyone knew about the free sites, they would quit using the pay sites and greatly increase the number of singles on the free sites! I try to promote my facebook page as much as possible. I even add the site link to a lot of images I use and keep posting them.


yeah it's almost as if dating sites are prostitution sites



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08 Oct 2012, 11:40 am

knowbody15 wrote:
What about meetups? Does it always have to be about dating and finding your soulmate? Why not meet up under plutonic circumstances and see if you like someone...... Speed dating for aspies....you have 5 minutes to tell someone everything you know about trains lol... sorry for anyone who's into trains.....personally, I love trains.



Ive been doing meetups since March and honestly it has been quite a good experience.

It started out because I had some issues with my local friends and I just gave up stayed in home for about 2 months. This could have been a solution if I lived by myself but my parents chimed in and started bringing up the need to go back to therapy... I turned to online organised activities to meet people.

Right now I have:
- A meeting on tuesdays.
- Two meetings on Thursdays(only go to one of those)
-A meeting on fridays
- A meeting on Saturdays
And Im sticking with my personal interest(pretty popular thing, you go to a meetup, someone tells you about this other meetup... you start meeting the same people at different meetups and acquired a regular status...)

I havent met a partner from there.
I did however become way more comfortable talking to new people of both genders and found a partner not too long ago because I got used to approaching strangers and starting a conversation out of nowhere(unthinkable not too long ago), personally I think its worth a shot because its free but it puts you out of your comfort zone so many members will probably have a problem with that



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08 Oct 2012, 8:27 pm

spongy wrote:
knowbody15 wrote:
What about meetups? Does it always have to be about dating and finding your soulmate? Why not meet up under plutonic circumstances and see if you like someone...... Speed dating for aspies....you have 5 minutes to tell someone everything you know about trains lol... sorry for anyone who's into trains.....personally, I love trains.



Ive been doing meetups since March and honestly it has been quite a good experience.

It started out because I had some issues with my local friends and I just gave up stayed in home for about 2 months. This could have been a solution if I lived by myself but my parents chimed in and started bringing up the need to go back to therapy... I turned to online organised activities to meet people.

Right now I have:
- A meeting on tuesdays.
- Two meetings on Thursdays(only go to one of those)
-A meeting on fridays
- A meeting on Saturdays
And Im sticking with my personal interest(pretty popular thing, you go to a meetup, someone tells you about this other meetup... you start meeting the same people at different meetups and acquired a regular status...)

I havent met a partner from there.
I did however become way more comfortable talking to new people of both genders and found a partner not too long ago because I got used to approaching strangers and starting a conversation out of nowhere(unthinkable not too long ago), personally I think its worth a shot because its free but it puts you out of your comfort zone so many members will probably have a problem with that


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08 Oct 2012, 8:45 pm

i think i am going to switch to just meeting friends on the okcupid. i get messages and girls seem nice, but after going out on two dates where i seriously did not know if i was supposed to be romantically interested, i just stopped responding to messages or sending them out. i think its a great site though.