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rabbittss
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19 May 2012, 6:58 pm

OliveOilMom wrote:
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DogsWithoutHorses wrote:
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BBW, isn't that an oxymoron?

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no
You seem not to understand what that means so I'll help you out
an ex. of an oxymoron would be "worthwhile commentary from rabbittss"


I see, everyone else is allowed to have an opinion except me.

I'm quite tired this constant harassment, from you and others, and really wish the mods would do something about it.


There is a difference between having an opinion and being a jacka**. I suggest you learn the difference.


yay, more unaddressed personal attacks!



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19 May 2012, 7:14 pm

rabbittss wrote:
yay, more unaddressed personal attacks!

a callout isn't a personal attack
if there ever is a personal attack that is not imaginary, the appropriate thing to do is not to complain about it in the thread

a reminder:
The topic of this thread is...actually I'll just quote some cool, on topic, appropriate posts
GrimmRomance wrote:
One should consider dating a bbw, as you call it, if one really likes her. Full stop.

I don't like the stereotype you're creating/supporting that larger women* are more likely to be single and desperate. From my experience that is not the case. Even if they were, why would one want to date someone who only wants to be in a relationship with you because they're desperate? Doesn't seem like the foundation for a healthy, rewarding relationship.

Also I have not noticed a larger number of women* on the spectrum being overweight compared to the allistics.


BlueMax wrote:
If you find her attractive - that's all that matters. It's all personal preference.


ValentineWiggin wrote:
Wow. I don't know what's more stupid:
the idea that having AS means men are magically-more attracted to BBW's,
or that BBW's would have to be "desperate" to date them.


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19 May 2012, 7:19 pm

And I was simply pointing out the silly nomenclature being employed by the OP for his thread title.



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19 May 2012, 7:28 pm

enough. first of all, BBWs are human beings who deserve the same respect as anyone else. here is a way to test if your opinions are likely to be offensive: insert an ethnic group into your phrase, for example instead of 'Big Beautiful Women are beneath me or desperate', say to yourself 'black people are beneath me or desperate'. you can see that would NOT be acceptable, so don't pull that crap about fat people either.


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19 May 2012, 7:34 pm

also, reminders have been given to a couple of members


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