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20 May 2012, 5:19 pm

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However, the only way I actually figured this out was because I took a step back and said "I'm not looking for a relationship right now."

How do you get to that stage?

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20 May 2012, 5:21 pm

Hmmm... I'd say it's easier in a place where there aren't that many people around.
Easier in daylight anyway.
Yeah there are the ones in pubs but they aren't all that really.

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20 May 2012, 5:52 pm

I only ever had luck on online forums & it was kind of accidental all 3x. I was posting about things & women kind of made the 1st move. 1st was on Comedy Central's forum 9 years ago. 2nd & 3rd/last were here on WP. I posted about things aLOT

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20 May 2012, 7:52 pm

smudge wrote:

AScomposer13413 wrote:

However, the only way I actually figured this out was because I took a step back and said "I'm not looking for a relationship right now."

How do you get to that stage?

I'll PM you my response to this, to save derailing the thread!

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20 May 2012, 8:59 pm

To answer the thread's title: nowhere, not in my wildest dreams.
Literally. I can't even dream about it.

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20 May 2012, 10:06 pm

Generally somewhere dark and secluded where we are the only two people around, preferably where there is a bush or something for me to hide behind so they don't see me coming, and where there are no witnesses to see me lock them in my trunk. And it works just as well no matter whether I am hunting for women or men.

Just kidding! But the L & D forum needs more joking around rather than having a funeral like atmosphere all the time.

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20 May 2012, 10:19 pm

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Just kidding! But the L & D forum needs more joking around rather than having a funeral like atmosphere all the time.

Gross
not cool. not funny.
You don't get to say sh!**y things without getting called on it just because you insist it's a "joke". That is not Humor.

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20 May 2012, 10:20 pm

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

GoatOnFire wrote:

Just kidding! But the L & D forum needs more joking around rather than having a funeral like atmosphere all the time.

Gross
not cool. not funny.
You don't get to say sh!**y things without getting called on it just because you insist it's a "joke". That is not Humor.

I thought he meant women & female goats

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20 May 2012, 11:28 pm

Errrmm I certainly could never call myself successful with men, pretty much the opposite actually. Although I get hit on somewhat frequently, I very rarely find someone that I actually want to date.

So the places I get hit on most in order are:

- while out dancing
- before or after a performance playing congas
- College / work
- before / after / while out surfing
- before / after / while riding my motorbike or while still in my gear

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21 May 2012, 3:16 am

I never really "hit" on women as I deemed the likelihood of success to low to waste the energy on. I have been hit on however. I have had two occassions where women have come up to me at a bar and talk to me. One came over and hugged me right off the bat, then after 5 mins of talking she surprised kissed me!! Needless to say I was not prepared to deal with that. The other time the girl was drunk so I sat with her and talked with her but had no intention of taking her home or anything. I can't take advantage of a drunk girl.

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21 May 2012, 6:52 am

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

GoatOnFire wrote:

Just kidding! But the L & D forum needs more joking around rather than having a funeral like atmosphere all the time.

Gross
not cool. not funny.
You don't get to say sh!**y things without getting called on it just because you insist it's a "joke". That is not Humor.

Hey, he was only joking.

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21 May 2012, 7:56 am

smudge wrote:

Hey, he was only joking.

I honestly can't tell if you're being sarcastic or radically missing the point.

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21 May 2012, 8:08 am

DogsWithoutHorses wrote:

smudge wrote:

Hey, he was only joking.

I honestly can't tell if you're being sarcastic or radically missing the point.

Not being sarcastic. I don't think he did anything wrong. What's the point I'm missing?

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21 May 2012, 8:17 am

DogsWithoutHorses = LadyWithoutHumour :roll:
Don't feel you have to defend against every comment, you know. Have fun every once in a while.

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21 May 2012, 9:15 am

JanuaryMan wrote:

DogsWithoutHorses = LadyWithoutHumour :roll:

Don't feel you have to defend against every comment, you know. Have fun every once in a while.

I can see her point. Im the first one to pull out inappropriate jokes, but i always keep rape out of it because its something those people were unjustly attacked for and have to live with for the rest of their lives.

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21 May 2012, 9:21 am

I don't think that joke was implying rape, though. He was just joking that his only possible way of finding people was to capture them.

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